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Too much negging?

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I'm having trouble with negging girls.

They tend to react to me a little (just a little) because maybe I'm negging them too much or too strong.
Then they start negging me back. Of course I don't take them seriously and I take it in a playfull way. But still it's like they create a shield, wich does not allow me to build rapport.

I need help with this:
When negging am I supposed to act like I don't really like her? Or just like she's just a little silly girl (and the I don't use strong negs, just playfull ones)?

And another question I also have:
I'm having trouble with the "vibe" I should be on when I'm with girls or at a club.
I need someone to clarify it for me. Maybe this is a complicated question, but I'll try to explain it to you if you don't understand.

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you're mainly supposed to neg the real top quality girls

and then only when they have b1tch shields up


And another question I also have:
I'm having trouble with the "vibe" I should be on when I'm with girls or at a club.
I need someone to clarify it for me. Maybe this is a complicated question, but I'll try to explain it to you if you don't understand.
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practice makes perfect. Try to keep your energy level up and be fun/aggressive. Your question is pretty vague, tho.
 
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You should tell us what the negs you are using...

Negging is not a very good technique untill you have some sort of rapport with the person... you can't open with a neg or else you're just some random arsehole that comes around to insult her.

Remember, negging is NOT the answer... the claw is.
 
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