"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Too much negging?

piri

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I'm having trouble with negging girls.

They tend to react to me a little (just a little) because maybe I'm negging them too much or too strong.
Then they start negging me back. Of course I don't take them seriously and I take it in a playfull way. But still it's like they create a shield, wich does not allow me to build rapport.

I need help with this:
When negging am I supposed to act like I don't really like her? Or just like she's just a little silly girl (and the I don't use strong negs, just playfull ones)?

And another question I also have:
I'm having trouble with the "vibe" I should be on when I'm with girls or at a club.
I need someone to clarify it for me. Maybe this is a complicated question, but I'll try to explain it to you if you don't understand.

Thanks
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Obsidian

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you're mainly supposed to neg the real top quality girls

and then only when they have b1tch shields up


And another question I also have:
I'm having trouble with the "vibe" I should be on when I'm with girls or at a club.
I need someone to clarify it for me. Maybe this is a complicated question, but I'll try to explain it to you if you don't understand.
practice makes perfect. Try to keep your energy level up and be fun/aggressive. Your question is pretty vague, tho.
 

So pimp its scary

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You should tell us what the negs you are using...

Negging is not a very good technique untill you have some sort of rapport with the person... you can't open with a neg or else you're just some random arsehole that comes around to insult her.

Remember, negging is NOT the answer... the claw is.
 
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