"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TOO much negative crap here people!

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How are you going to become the person you want to become with all those negative thoughts in your head?.
It's pretty much proven that negative emotions have a great effect on the human body....to what exstent is unknown...but we DO KNOW it has a very bad effect.

I've found that instead of telling myself "i'm ugly,underweight or have acne"...and reverse them to "You have 100% CLEAR skin and your the RIGHT weight and are AMAZING looking"....i get the job done.

it's all about telling yourself your AMAZING and not telling yourself your a joke...stop telling yourself you can't do something when you haven't even tryed?...half the time people say they can't do or become something....even though they have NOTHING to base that feeling on.

just have a positive mindset people, and everything else that you want will come.
you want to have confidence?, then fake it till you make it....or keep telling yourself you are confident and it WILL HAPPEN.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Malachi said:
How are you going to become the person you want to become with all those negative thoughts in your head?.
It's pretty much proven that negative emotions have a great effect on the human body....to what exstent is unknown...but we DO KNOW it has a very bad effect.

I've found that instead of telling myself "i'm ugly,underweight or have acne"...and reverse them to "You have 100% CLEAR skin and your the RIGHT weight and are AMAZING looking"....i get the job done.

it's all about telling yourself your AMAZING and not telling yourself your a joke...stop telling yourself you can't do something when you haven't even tryed?...half the time people say they can't do or become something....even though they have NOTHING to base that feeling on.

just have a positive mindset people, and everything else that you want will come.
you want to have confidence?, then fake it till you make it....or keep telling yourself you are confident and it WILL HAPPEN.
Agreed. Even though, if you have acne, do what you can to make it go away. Always try and improve yourself, and don't use any energy on things you cannot change. Do things that will make you feel better. When things are going sluggish, tell yourself "I'm doing it for myself". And so on.
Do it for yourself.
 

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NoNickname said:
Agreed. Even though, if you have acne, do what you can to make it go away. Always try and improve yourself, and don't use any energy on things you cannot change. Do things that will make you feel better. When things are going sluggish, tell yourself "I'm doing it for myself". And so on.
Do it for yourself.
That's right, i use to programme myself to come out with the WORST scenaries when i had a problem.
But now i just get on with it and come out with the BEST scenaries and what rewards i can get out of it.

I'm going out downtown within the hour...so it's my chance to shine again, walk like a king, talk like a king...and act like a GOD!....yes some of you think this is abit "Up your own ass" but it's diffrent than that...it's about self belief and being happy in your own skin!.
 

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Ignorance is not a virtue, and ignorance of the law is still criminal.

Why do people who come to this site preach negative philosophies without weighing the consequences of their actions? The true DJ's that everybody looks up to with awe and wonder condone being an ******* without the negative qualities, they don't say be an *******, they say "be a man!"

I keep looking at these threads and the responses of the completely closed off mind sets, there is no room for improvement, because simply they will not allow it to settle.

All in all when I stop and think about these people with thousands of posts and still preaching people to stop doing certain things and do others they are telling people to stop being themselves. They don't tell people to stop doing things a certain way that consistently fails and instead to do it in a constructive manner, they tell them to quit, and take on a completely different path.

When have one of you true pickup artists(you should know who you are) ever faked a situation, lost complete control of it, and decided that it was garbage and since you failed so will everybody else? When do you go off insulting people and telling them their way is absolutely wrong and will never amount to anything?
 

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ethnomethodologist said:
Ignorance is not a virtue, and ignorance of the law is still criminal.

Why do people who come to this site preach negative philosophies without weighing the consequences of their actions? The true DJ's that everybody looks up to with awe and wonder condone being an ******* without the negative qualities, they don't say be an *******, they say "be a man!"

I keep looking at these threads and the responses of the completely closed off mind sets, there is no room for improvement, because simply they will not allow it to settle.

All in all when I stop and think about these people with thousands of posts and still preaching people to stop doing certain things and do others they are telling people to stop being themselves. They don't tell people to stop doing things a certain way that consistently fails and instead to do it in a constructive manner, they tell them to quit, and take on a completely different path.

When have one of you true pickup artists(you should know who you are) ever faked a situation, lost complete control of it, and decided that it was garbage and since you failed so will everybody else? When do you go off insulting people and telling them their way is absolutely wrong and will never amount to anything?

Not really sure if your actually having a go at me, as i've had a few...and so...anyway.

But i'm just passing on information and a mindset that has helped ME, whether people choose to adopt this attitude is their choice, and their choice alone.

I don't wish to cause any problems for anyone, i just wanted to help people...this attitude has helped me in ALL areas of life...so i thought i would do the good thing and try to help others.

-malachi
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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