"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I was talking to these girls last night. They were laughing out loud at everything I said. They would just wait for me to say something and then start laughing, regardless of what I said. Is this a sign they are attracted to me? It didn't matter at all what I said, they would just start laughing. I wasn't sure if I should leave because they seemed rather ditzy or whatever. What are your guys experiences.

I tried touching both of them, hugging them, putting my around them, they seemed cool with that.

But after that, they hot girl said she wanted to see my moves on the dance floor. Were they trying to get rid of me by saying that?

Then I tried asking the hot girl about her work and she told me a little bit, but then she stopped smiling and seemed really cold towards me. She said she didn't want to talk about work and she didn't want to think about work. I just said goodbye and left since it seemed like they weren't having a good time after that.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sounds very awkward, you should've had some self respect and remove yourself from that situation ahead of time.

stop looking for validation.

read urbandictionary's definition of a "tool."
 

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You're a dipsh1t keyboard jockey. Stop embarrassing yourself and go back to your internet porno. You and your mom are missing out on your together time.

Jester FPS said:
sounds very awkward, you should've had some self respect and remove yourself from that situation ahead of time.

stop looking for validation.

read urbandictionary's definition of a "tool."
 

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Well there is a saying of frying out Buying temperature, but i would have to actually be there to really get an idea. What you should have been doing is just keep trying to escalate and see how far you could've gone. If you was able to escalate then you know they are just attracted.

An you said dancefloor so I'm assuming it was a club or party, maybe they were party chicks, because party chicks don't need rapport to lay just attraction. You should have sticked in there and find out how far you could've gone whether they had a inside joke or not you would've found out.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Interesting...do you have a link or a post that I can read more about buying temperature, bro?

Distant Light said:
Well there is a saying of frying out Buying temperature, but i would have to actually be there to really get an idea. What you should have been doing is just keep trying to escalate and see how far you could've gone. If you was able to escalate then you know they are just attracted.

An you said dancefloor so I'm assuming it was a club or party, maybe they were party chicks, because party chicks don't need rapport to lay just attraction. You should have sticked in there and find out how far you could've gone whether they had a inside joke or not you would've found out.
 

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She wanted to see your dance moves

You grab her by the hand or oush her forward at the small of her back and take her to the dance floor

Lots of women associcate dancing with sex

That can be interpreted as I wanna see how you ****

Your the man shes the woman you control the situation
 

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Read the bible.
 
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