"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Too much game in bars lol

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Ok guys. I've started going to bars a little more frequently lately since I've gotten out of my LTR.

The guys I usually go with are pretty good with the ladies, as am I. We know how to work the women in a bar.

Now, here's the problem: We'll go into a bar, talk to most of the women in there. By the end of the night, we usually have 3 or 4 girls each that we're trying to game simultaneously.

The problem is, I think we're gaming them *too* well, because they start getting really jealous of eachother. They get catty on the dance floor, giving eachother bad looks, saying **** etc.

I know that this is awesome for social proof purposes. IE: women seeing that other women want us.

BUT, we never really want to stick to ONE girl each the whole night. Because, well, we're not really sure which girls we want lol.

So, sometimes one of the girls I'll be gaming will get too jealous and refuse to talk after seeing me grind with another chick.

It's as if they think I'm their property at the bar, and get really offended when they see me talking to/dancing with another girl.

Question is: Is it better to try to pick the best girl of out the few you're gaming, and forget about the others? Or keep gaming like 3 or 4 girls and take the chance that some of them or all of them might get too jealous and refuse to talk to you by the end of the night?

It's great being out at the bars again, but this problem is causing a bit of confusion :down:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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do the bone test









which ever one gives you the hardes boner, wins you for the rest of the night:D
 
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Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
What happens when you get into a LTR with one of them
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Relax Italostud->everythings going great, if it becomes too much of a hassle just try not pouring your game on quite so thickly and so quickly ;) But me personally I would exploit the situation not fear it :cool:
 
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I'm not worried about LTRing any of them or anything like that. And I'm not really sweating this thing too much, because it's not really the *worst* problem to have. But, any advice from other guys who are successful at the bars with regards to controlling your harem of hors? Lol
 
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The only way to keep it kinda ;) controlled is to pull girls aside separately and whisper sh** in their ear in front of the others. Quality time for all-> but then again I usually work alone-> but keep it pimpin Italostud :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by italostud
I'm not worried about LTRing any of them or anything like that. And I'm not really sweating this thing too much, because it's not really the *worst* problem to have. But, any advice from other guys who are successful at the bars with regards to controlling your harem of hors? Lol
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Decide which one you want and isolate. There is no need to play 4 girls on eachother for an entire night. I doubt this is getting you layed? They are probably so focused on battling the other girls they're missing the point - YOU.
 
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This is the true essence of a DJ, getting other women to fight over your sexual services. No "Lets just be friends" Bullcrap here, just different acts of the Kama Sutra they want to try on you!
 
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Hows about you enquire as to the likelyhood of a threesome? Surely the tension would be alleviated if the women were looking at each other as potential partners, instead of competition?

What i mean is, when gaming these ladies at the bar, find out if they are willing to swing both ways. If they are'nt, move on to the next one. Then when you're on the dancefloor, you'll be surrounded by bisexual women (you might be surprised at just how many women are into that kind of thing).

Its definitely worth a shot :D
 
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This will work, whatever gets them back at SOMEONE's place at 2:30 am with some booze and whatnot, some music, and dancing, and then some "intimate time"

Anything beats the hell out of "I have to get up early tomarrow"
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sheer numbers dictates you'll be left with at least one by the end of the night, right?

Right.:D

I'd say just keep on what you're doing - I don't see anything wrong in letting the women know that they need to work hard to get to you.
 
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In the clubs in my new city, you almost HAVE to game multiple chicks in a night because the competition factor is FIERCE!!
 
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