"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Too much discussion on BPD women here

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There's too much talk about BPD women here.

You want to know how to treat them? Or what to do if they're causing you grief? TREAT THEM LIKE ANY OTHER WOMAN. They get NO special treatment. You wouldn't let a woman with a healthy mind fvck around with you, so don't let a BPD women. Mental illness if not an excuse. You're a MAN, not her therapist. You don't have to put up with crap.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Crissco

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Captain said:
There's too much talk about BPD women here.

You want to know how to treat them? Or what to do if they're causing you grief? TREAT THEM LIKE ANY OTHER WOMAN. They get NO special treatment. You wouldn't let a woman with a healthy mind fvck around with you, so don't let a BPD women. Mental illness if not an excuse. You're a MAN, not her therapist. You don't have to put up with crap.
You know what, ive been thinking about this for a while now, been dealing with a lot of BPDs unfortunately, and your 100% right. Treat them like any other women.
 

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I think the term BPD get's tossed around heavily here. It's pretty much an excuse for a woman to be a b!tch, that's how I see it. The whole "disorder" is a debate within itself. These girls aren't mentally ill because of some serotonin deficiency. These girls have traumatic pasts. Most of them were raped or have daddy issues. They get away with this psychotic behavior their whole time growing up, so they think it's okay to act this way towards men and any other people they come across. This is the result of a weak father figure. Just another example of how feminism is destroying society. BPD is a relatively new term. Girls didn't act this way 50 years ago. They use it as an "out" for their actions. So yes, you shouldn't treat them any differently then you would any other woman. If anything, I would give them less sympathy. They don't deserve it. And any "problems" or dilemmas they seemingly run into they most likely brought upon themselves. Too many people are trying to be captain save a ho. Some girls are just beyond help. Stay clear, period. Or if you're experienced. Pump and dump. Extreme emphasis on the DUMP part. These woman have tendency of sucking you in extremely fast and extremely well.
 

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Scars laid it down and I agree.

BPD gets thrown around here like crazy. Anything a guy can't interpret = BPD. Anything a guy can't deal with = BPD. She's a great lay = BPD. She's emotional = BPD.

Look up the clinical definition and then look up all the studies that demonstrate how hard it is to even diagnose someone with BPD in the first place.

I think just a handful of the women that are talked about on this forum are actually BPD. A LOT of women are hot and cold, but it doesn't make them all BPD. Now if you KNOW that someone is clinically a BPD, this is how you treat them:

You don't.

Run.

Away.

Unless you have your stuff in check and can clearly deal with the ups and downs.
 
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