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too much cuddling?

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is it a bad idea to have 2 - 3 cuddling sessions (and spooning) without boning a girl? theres a girl i've been hanging out with, and we've been hooking up, but i have not boned her yet. the past 3 times i haven't gotten to bone her cause of issues with her period, my roomate in my dorm room, etc. is cuddling with a girl too much and no action a turn off for them?

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dude, cuddle all you want. But not every fvckin day... girls like cuddling.. but dont JUST cuddle... rub her, stroke her hair, tall her things she wants to hear... stroll your fingers across her body.. n mix it up with a little roughhousing.... make her wet dude, cuddling is good. very good.. at least for me it is.
 

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Cuddling is good as long as you're not annoying her and seeming like a clingy, needy bastard. I don't know why, but I used to bring out the former reaction in women sometimes. It has not happened in a few years now, and I probably cuddle as much now as before. It's like somehow they just sense when you need to versus when you're just willing to.

If you're young (under say 21), I'd err on the side of caution. You don't have to fclose her everytime. If you're regularly making out it's bound to happen. You seem to have a laundry list full of excuses, though, and I am not buying into any of them. Get her alone with music and candles, throw in a movie, but you and I both know it will never get watched.
 

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i dont cuddle sh1t :down:

thats just me tho, if u like then just do it dude, if u'd rather have sex and only she likes 'cuddling' then only do it after u **** her
 
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