"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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too much cuddling?

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is it a bad idea to have 2 - 3 cuddling sessions (and spooning) without boning a girl? theres a girl i've been hanging out with, and we've been hooking up, but i have not boned her yet. the past 3 times i haven't gotten to bone her cause of issues with her period, my roomate in my dorm room, etc. is cuddling with a girl too much and no action a turn off for them?

thanks
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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dude, cuddle all you want. But not every fvckin day... girls like cuddling.. but dont JUST cuddle... rub her, stroke her hair, tall her things she wants to hear... stroll your fingers across her body.. n mix it up with a little roughhousing.... make her wet dude, cuddling is good. very good.. at least for me it is.
 

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Cuddling is good as long as you're not annoying her and seeming like a clingy, needy bastard. I don't know why, but I used to bring out the former reaction in women sometimes. It has not happened in a few years now, and I probably cuddle as much now as before. It's like somehow they just sense when you need to versus when you're just willing to.

If you're young (under say 21), I'd err on the side of caution. You don't have to fclose her everytime. If you're regularly making out it's bound to happen. You seem to have a laundry list full of excuses, though, and I am not buying into any of them. Get her alone with music and candles, throw in a movie, but you and I both know it will never get watched.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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i dont cuddle sh1t :down:

thats just me tho, if u like then just do it dude, if u'd rather have sex and only she likes 'cuddling' then only do it after u **** her
 
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