Too mean or ****y or what? in your opinion.

[DJ4Real]

Well, this is what happend. I was walking in the hall of my college. I saw the girl that I like and her friends hugging each other and stuff. So, I approached all of them and obviously pretended to be " Mr Sensitive " just to make fun of them. I went the whole 100 yards. I said things like "AWWWWW that's so sweet *kiss kiss* (with my lips)" and stuff like that. I might have gone a little over board, I'm not perfect, I make mistakes. But I don't think it was all that serious of a mistake (from my point of view). Anyways, now the girl is acting weird and distant and giving me these short and fake smiles and these low "hellos", sort of like she is trying to diss me or something. I've been ignoring her back. I give her eye contact sometimes, but I don't smile. I just keep walking and doing whatever. She knows I do silly and unpredictable things, so I don't know why she's so da*n shocked and angry. I think she is way too influenced by her friends "what they think" about what I did. I know that they are pissed at me for making fun of them hugging and stuff. I just don't understand what the problem is? I don't think that it's necessary to apologize for this, so I haven't apologized. I was only being a guy who made fun of some girls hugging. They probably took it way too seriously or totally lack a sense of humor and are stuck up. Tell me, in a respectful manner, what is going on? I'm truly baffled that this should piss them off so much. Well, I guess the girl that I like doesn't like me anymore, tough luck for me, huh? Oh well, I'll just start with a new girl from scratch, it still sucks though.

 

[AlexTheGreat]

From what I gather, you did nothing wrong, except maybe rub it in a little too much. Don't sweat it, just don't try to contact her for a bit and keep going with your life. Don't stop just because of her. You're probably over reacting, and so is she. Let her cool off, I'm sure she won't even remember it tomorrow.

 

[DJ4Real]

It's been a week since it happend. Yeah, I figure I might be overreacting aswell as her and her friends. Thanks for your insight.

 

[[]D [] []V[] []D]

Ok buddy... take some time to think of it in HER perspective damit...seriously.

Altho im a guy, im still telling you to do this

You know why? because you have to look at this situation from the bigger point of view...

Ok so teasing, and using C&F is good right?

But from what i read... it seems like she and her friends were having fun and some FREAK comes by and says something stupid and thinks he so cool.

Buddy, i know you tried but if you dont know the girls very well, you should introduce yourself first.

1)You couldve appraoched the one you like after they are in a group (because when girls are in groups thier defences are way up)
2) Not trying to say that u should cut the C&F but i seriously dont like to tease a girl when im with her friends. Its the stupiest thing to do (trust me), you should act considerate (not AFC) and say hi, whats up... and stuff like that.

If you still dont understand... just think about it when one of those annoying ugly girls come up to you and do something stupid that embarrasses you infront of your friends...

I suggest your next step be to totally ignore her for like 1 week and then start again from there. (just you and her this time)

 

[DJ4Real]

The girl I like I knew for 8 months. Her friends, I met them about 2 weeks ago. I've viewed it from her perspective. That's why I said I might have gone overboard. I was making fun of them.....not just her. I don't have to put on some "considerate" act because I'm around her friends. I'm a considerate guy, I just tease her, now what's the problem with some teasing?

Don't refer to me as "freak" or "buddy".

 

[gravstar]

Mate that's just women. About 80% of them a stuck up all the time. If she can't take something like that she's real tight. , not that way.
But that guy with that crazy bracket name has a got a point. It kills the moment when someone comes from nowhere and starts playing round. You just did it at a bad time.

 

[DJ4Real]

Bad time is a possibility. But, why do you think she is taking it to the extreme? well, it was unpredictable, that's for sure.