"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Too mature for my age??

SoonToBeDJ

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Hey guys I have a question that I am a little stumped on. I am 18 but I am mature for my age due to the fact that since the age of 15 and up I used to hang out with people older than me (mostly my brother and his friends.) Anywhere from 2-4 years older than me.

Well since I started becoming like them (more older and mature) I have a little problem with females my age. Their all immature. Not to the point that all they wanna do is play in a playground but I mean as far as the way the carry themselves. How should I handle this? I've tried a few times hooking up with chics a little older than me but nothing. Am I out of luck until I become older, should I start acting my age?? It sounds like a stupid question but I am lost on this topic, any suggestions will help.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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MindOverMatter

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You are 18 man.

You are not looking for a wife, or a really long term girlfriend (at least I hope not, because you are not gonna find that at your age). Don't stress this out so much.

Have a good time, and sleep around with these girls, build some game and experiance, because it will come useful when you are in your mid/late 20s and are dealing with real women.
 
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