"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Too Many Reality Shows!

DJ_in_making

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There are too many reality show's that show celebrity's lives.:cuss:
We started with "The Osbournes". Now there's the Venus sisters', being Bobby Brown, Holgan knows best. And countless others I'm sure I didn't get to.
I mean I'll admit I'm guilty of leaving it on these shows a little too long when channel surfing, but if you think about it. You're using up precious time in your life, to watch someone else's. Wow, every celeb wants to show to the world their rich, over-eccentric way of life.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SamePendo

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My cable provider recently gave me lots of new channels. USA´s MTV included. I had forgotten how f´d up it is. I thought latin america´s mtv, and tv in general was f´d up... Oh man, it´s a mess. I wont get into much details it is a mess.

Although, I had this opportunity to see this reality show, called family buissiness. About a family that runs a porn company. I won´t say it´s interesting... but it is very entertaining.

Remember, tv is just entertainment, we aren´t supposed to see it 24/7... that´s where the problem is.
 

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Originally posted by DJ_in_making
There are too many reality show's that show celebrity's lives.:cuss:
We started with "The Osbournes". Now there's the Venus sisters', being Bobby Brown, Holgan knows best. And countless others I'm sure I didn't get to.
I mean I'll admit I'm guilty of leaving it on these shows a little too long when channel surfing, but if you think about it. You're using up precious time in your life, to watch someone else's. Wow, every celeb wants to show to the world their rich, over-eccentric way of life.
when you watch a sitcom you are using up your precious time watching somebody's made up story...
 

The Bad Ass Canadian

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most of the "reality" shows aren't all that real... most of it is scripted, or at least plotted out.

If you really think that what you are watching is exactly how it happened on any of these shows...... you gotta be the most gullible person around.

It's entertainment just like any other show. You're not watching some celebrity's life... You're watching a blown up, exaggerrated version of it.

Watch Tommy Lee goes to College, to see what I mean. The conversations and the people's reactions to these conversations are so edited for dramatic effect, it's not even funny.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Desdinova

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Just one of the many reasons I don't watch TV. It's a waste of time which is better spent on bettering myself, reaching goals, and indulging in my hobbies.
 

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I loved the Osbournes...first time I caught it was when Sharon threw the rotten ham at the neighbors and Ozzy threw a log through their window. That episode was hilarious.

I can't stand the sappy "Bachelor" and I'm bored with the physical challenge shows. I do like the reality shows on VH1, though. I think the reason I like them is because they keep them fairly short. I've watched that show (on Fox I think) where mothers switch families a few times and that one is interesting. They sent a psycho control freak animal rights vegan woman to live in the Bayou with a family who sells alligator heads and eats alligator, frog legs, and mostly any variety of meat. I wanted to punch the vegan biotch in the mouth so many times. She was really hateful.
 

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I am ashamed to admit that I do watch some reality shows sometimes. I have watched "Growing up Gotti" and "Dog the bounty hunter," but those 2 shows are decent compared to the other "you can tell its so scripted" reality shows out there.

Luigi of growing up Gotti is hilarious! that man is the type you wish he was your uncle! he is just naturally funny he doesn't have to do anything to be funny!

I like watching all the drama and tense moments of Dog the bounty hunter. Good stuff.
 

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I think "COPS" was the first reality show. Its been on since 1986. So many of these reality shows now focus on peoples glamorous lives. " Girl next door", "Cribs", "joe millionaire"....."laguna Beach"....there getting annoying. The most annoying one is "My sweet 16 party" & its shows these materialistic, rich girls 16th birthday party. One of the episodes the dad was a rich guy that owned some l.a. niteclubs & threw his daughter a party at the cost of $450,000!!...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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