"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Too Many Plates?

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Alright so I'm a freshman college student, and I'm starting to wonder if I'm trying to balance too many plates. And by plates, I mean things other than women.

For starters, I'm a first year engineering student, am currently on a club sports team which requires a decent amount of commitment and time. I am applying to be an Resident Adviser next year, as well as trying to get a co-op this summer. I'm contemplating joining a Fraternity as well. Along with those things, I've still got a decent social life and I get along with the ladies alright.

I feel like all these things are taking their toll on me. I'm getting forgetful, inconsistent, and I'm finding it difficult to focus on things. Now, you may have noticed, none of these things are good.

I need some advice, some motivation, just something I can relate to. Has anyone gotten in this kind of situation before?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Speaking as someone with an engineering degree finishing it should be your utmost priority. You'll have plenty of time for women later. The co-op and internships will help you a lot in getting your first job, everything else is ancillary.
 
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I work as a registered professional engineer on a construction site, nominal hours are 6:30am - 5:30pm, normally finishing later for the engineers, plus some work at night.

So yes, can be bloody hard to fit it all in.

Don't ever sacrifice your study for chasing pvssy. It will be earning you big bucks in a couple of years, pvssy is fun but earns you nothing.

Doesn't mean you can't have some fun along the way though ;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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listen to the previous posters. make sure you focus on what's going to benefit you first in the long run versus women (they'll always be there).
 
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