Too many numbers = grief?

[Porky]

I crashed a halloween party last night. I don't know how it happened really, but a lot of sophomore girls have taken a liking to me and I was invited to this place.

Anyway, I went dressed as the state puff marshmellow man (think Ghostbusters). My costume was pretty damn sweet, and all night girls who I'd never talked to before, had never looked at me before, or who I hadn't talked to much before were giving me hugs and touching me. I'm not sure how many numbers I could have gotten, but I'm certain I could have gotten at least a couple.

So, here's the dilemma. Everybody there knew each other, and they're pretty much all part of the same clique. Therefore, if I asked for one girl's number and got it, word would spread fast. If I asked for two girls' numbers and got them, word would spread equally fast and I had a feeling this would have backfired in my face.

Would I have come off as a jerk for asking different girls for their numbers, or would they have been flattered/impressed? I personally see nothing wrong with it, but I'm not going to go for more than one number if it means I'll be getting a lot of grief.

 

[OneByOne]

well you could've atleast got one number

 

[Porky]

That has little to do with my question, which is very hypothetical.

 

[ShizamDaMan]

Ask for all the numbers you want. You won't get a bad rap if you get a number from every girl you ask anyway

I was at a Halloween party last night. Met this one HB9 and had a fun conversation with her and a friend. Some guys there were talking about her and were like "Man she's so perfect I want to de-pants her blah blah blah." I of course just kind of payed half-attention and grinned to myself. Got her phone number infront of all those guys and then went home when the party was over. They stared at me in awe as she wrote the number down on the palm of my hand with a sharpie

 

[Smooth as Anything]

I spent my halloween playing guitar at home .

I was invited to a couple parties, but guitar is my passion.

 

[OneByOne]

Playing guitar rules, i have a friend coming round today to jam, were gonna play the trooper by iron maiden, how long you bin playing for?

anyway i was saying if you got atleast one number how could they see you as a jerk or such

 

[Saine]

Originally posted by Smooth as Anything
I spent my halloween playing guitar at home .

I was invited to a couple parties, but guitar is my passion.

Amen, girls and parties/occasions are not our priorities. Our priority is ourself!

 

[Saine]

Stayed home fixing the room. Quite a feat.

 

[drixsa]

Originally posted by Smooth as Anything
I spent my halloween playing guitar at home .

I was invited to a couple parties, but guitar is my passion.

Wow, your cool

Porky-

its all in how you do it

in your situation id ask for their number like youd ask a friend for her number...no pressure no worries

once they know that you have more than just their number they will hopefully want you to themselves and make quite an effort with you

its funny but sometimes 1 night can make a huge difference