"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Too many girls tomorrow

In_the_Wild

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So, I get this cool summer job and go to Copenhagen...

My girlfriend is on a roadtrip, and were gonna be apart for long, so I feel like I need to get out a bit


I met up with this chick on Thursday, we went to a café and had some beers, we hit it off pretty goood,

Then I take her hand for a while when we discuss something, and more follows. We end up walking about town kissing for like 3 hours.

I txt her this morning, we're gonna talk at lunch tomorrow, bout going to the beach

But she has a friend over from Germany, that comes tomorrow to visit.. and she says she has to hang out with her, and she might bring her along.. I agreed, cause I thought it sounded ok..

F*ck I wanna isolate her!

Should I call it off and say we could meet alone in the evening..

or how should I handle the two girls:trouble: ..
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Max Power

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In_the_Wild said:
But she has a friend over from Germany, that comes tomorrow to visit.. and she says she has to hang out with her, and she might bring her along.. I agreed, cause I thought it sounded ok...
I'm not a fan of third wheel dates with built in ****blocks.
 

In_the_Wild

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well, niether am I.. so I was thinking, maybe I'll just cancel, with some lame excuse, but say, we could meet out monday night though...

what u think?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

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