"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Too many girls - a success story!

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Thanks,

Chose to read this as the first post after registering on this forum, and it's a source of inspiration for the new year. Thinking back on this year, I have done more than I gave myself credit for. Taking risks with new relationships has only brought me good things - experience, confidence and many new friends. Soon enough I'll have a girlfriend too.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SeymourCake said:
Hm...I'm assuming the Law of Attraction is in use OP. Have you heard of it? I was a bit skeptical about it, but now I'm having a different view point on it.
I've heard of it, but am not sure what the actual Law of Attraction is, to be honest. I'll google it.
 

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Check out the documentary called "The Secret". They have the first 20 minutes up on YouTube and you could get the torrent for the full version.
 
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