"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Too many girls a success story originally posted by asid 76

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THIS WAS ORIGINALLY POSTED BY asid 76 in the mature man forum

I came on here for advice with women. You all answered and offered great advice. Now I have a new problem. There are too many!! I had NOTHING, NO ONE for like three years, now they ALL want me. Not sure how to pick from so many. I'm not even trying to be ****y, all of a sudden everyone wants me and it's weird, I'm not used to this.

I haven't even approached anyone lately, I've only been working on gaining weight and my "inner game" and I've become in high demand. I'm still short, still going bald, still broke, but yet I'm generating SO much interest.

Any comments on my situation are welcomed. I guess it really is true that you have to fake it til you make it. I've been ASSUMING I'm the man, and that women WANT me because previously I assumed they did not and I figured I might as well assume the positive. And it has manifested into reality. They DO want me now.

I can't even pinpoint where it changed for me, but it has changed drastically. All you guys out there who are still having problems, stick to your guns, the results WILL be there for you. It took me damn near three years or so. Look at my first ever post, I was so laaaame. And now I can pick and choose. I feel great! The tips and info on this site are priceless. Not just in terms of getting women but in life in general.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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We need more threads like this on the forum, successful guys should not just leave when they have got what they want from the site , they should give their testimonials. I hope more posters, give their testimonials in this thread or make new threads with their success stories.
 
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I don't understand why the term success is associated with picking up women? Anyone care to explain that to me, because I'm missing something?

I think it is great that such a site as this exists, it has helped me immeasurably. it has shown me where I have been going wrong in life i.e. a lack of confidence, the unwillingness to make mistakes and the view that rejections equals failure. But I don't see getting with women as being success, if guys view getting women as a mark of success then I would hazard a guess that they lack ambition and drive in life.

I see owning a large house with three expensive cars as being a mark of success, working your way up through the ranks at work as being a mark of success, enjoying life to the fullest etc, not scoring women.

I just see women as a luxury and not a necessity, so I guess my attitude probably isn't in the norm on here?
 

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I see success as owning several apartment buildings, and by debtorship the people who reside in them.

I also see success as having enough money to solve any problem, even murder.

I also see success as maintaining a long term relationship with a girl who makes my life better.

I also see success as getting a good grade on a test.

I also see success as having great conversations all night and being entertaining at a party.

I also see success as not pissing on the toilet bowl rim by accident late at night when I'm drunk.

I also see success as getting up in the morning and feeling like I have my life in order.

Success is defined in my ways. I don't think people refer to getting laid as an ultimate, life-validating success.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Thats strange i was reading that thread earlier and noticed it didn't have many replies.
We definitely need to hear some more success stories
 

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perseverance said:
I don't understand why the term success is associated with picking up women? Anyone care to explain that to me, because I'm missing something?

I think it is great that such a site as this exists, it has helped me immeasurably. it has shown me where I have been going wrong in life i.e. a lack of confidence, the unwillingness to make mistakes and the view that rejections equals failure. But I don't see getting with women as being success, if guys view getting women as a mark of success then I would hazard a guess that they lack ambition and drive in life.

I see owning a large house with three expensive cars as being a mark of success, working your way up through the ranks at work as being a mark of success, enjoying life to the fullest etc, not scoring women.

I just see women as a luxury and not a necessity, so I guess my attitude probably isn't in the norm on here?

You are overthinking. I think you are thinking about life success. If you were on a bodybuilding site and you finally got the body you were working for then that's success in terms of the forum. Nobody is saying getting women = complete and fufilled life. Geez man. Really? Why do I even have to explain this?
 
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