Here is what I am struggling with: I am at a party with let's say 100 people. I see a girl I am interested in,I go open. We have a really good,interesting interaction,sometimes I overdo with being too funny or ****y...and it almost blows her away. She seems hooked. I escalated kino and calibrate her reaction. All good thus far.
Then, I usually don't get in return as much entertainment I put in, I feel like I am one of those desperate chodes that will talk to a girl just because she is a girl. I lose some interested and back off a little in a conversation,expecting her to pick up her part. At this point usually,some other guys walks in into my set and starts gaming her. She immediately switches her attention to the new guy. I am left with my balls.
Sometimes there are multiple guys trying to get in while I am talking to her.I let them sometimes just to see if she would actually continue talking to me,thus showing some interest,and of course that would blow out the other guy badly.
So tonight I talked to a girl who was maybe HB8..and every chode in that party tried to talk to her. I felt sick for men kind,how can we be so desperate? They would follow her until she pretty much told them some excuse like she has to go get a drink and then turn around.Sometimes it was 2-3 guys at the time trying to get her attention..it was pathetic,she was like a celebrity. There was of course a sh1tty ratio of guys to girls...
I didn't feel like chasing her. I felt that I introduced myself,she had fun talking to me and if she wanted anything with me she would find me and continue our conversation. I need some IOI like that to be able to continue pick up. I went around the room and approached few more girls..but nothing stuck really,just some friendly interactions.
The moral of this story, I am sure she went home with some guy who was stocking her all night and I went home alone. I also think I could have layed this chick.Ultimatly I think I have more value than any woman.
Then, I usually don't get in return as much entertainment I put in, I feel like I am one of those desperate chodes that will talk to a girl just because she is a girl. I lose some interested and back off a little in a conversation,expecting her to pick up her part. At this point usually,some other guys walks in into my set and starts gaming her. She immediately switches her attention to the new guy. I am left with my balls.
Sometimes there are multiple guys trying to get in while I am talking to her.I let them sometimes just to see if she would actually continue talking to me,thus showing some interest,and of course that would blow out the other guy badly.
So tonight I talked to a girl who was maybe HB8..and every chode in that party tried to talk to her. I felt sick for men kind,how can we be so desperate? They would follow her until she pretty much told them some excuse like she has to go get a drink and then turn around.Sometimes it was 2-3 guys at the time trying to get her attention..it was pathetic,she was like a celebrity. There was of course a sh1tty ratio of guys to girls...
I didn't feel like chasing her. I felt that I introduced myself,she had fun talking to me and if she wanted anything with me she would find me and continue our conversation. I need some IOI like that to be able to continue pick up. I went around the room and approached few more girls..but nothing stuck really,just some friendly interactions.
The moral of this story, I am sure she went home with some guy who was stocking her all night and I went home alone. I also think I could have layed this chick.Ultimatly I think I have more value than any woman.