"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Too lazy to go on dates with online girls

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I don't know about you guys, but to me, it's a real buzz kill when a chick insists on the first date being somewhere in public. I prefer just watching TV and chilling with them.

I cancelled a date out for drinks last night, rescheduled for tomorrow night...I will probably just flake on that one.

Got another date scheduled on Friday night....doubt I will muster up the umoth to go especially since I'm working my new job Saturday morning.

It just seems like the more women you bang and the more experienced you get the least amount of effort begin to be willing to put in.

We need to just develop a new dating app that's the pizza delivery service of dating and make it socially acceptable.

No real dates allowed...cut through the BS.

We could call it something simple like Crib Date or just My Place Dating.

Members would be required to submit credit card or government ID info for safety reasons only....kind of like Uber does.

Free of charge ofcourse.

Don't steal my idea guys. Going to try and make thus happen.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yeah, I don't mind fighting off the stalkers too much. Can also just go to their place if you feel like it.

I'm thinking Delivery Date or Insta-Date would be good names as well.
 

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There's always SoHo Pizza if you're in Manhattan
 

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As long as it legal. But then there is no chase so to speak. The appeal diminishes?
I would rather abstain than have sex with a prostitute.

1. It's like making an acknowledgement that your game and SMV are so poor that you can't have sex unless you pay to have it
2. There's no emotionality at all, it's just a job for her (like a woman who gives it up to the beta husband she resents), so the sex probably wouldn't even be good
3. It costs money
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If I want prostitutes I'll go to a third world country where they are cheap and give a gfe.

So this is different.

It's a dating app that exepites the process and automatically weeds out time wasters and ego boosters.

And it will give them more of an excuse to be a slut once it goes mainstream.

It's like you only swipe right if you are willing to go to that person's place.

Will save a lot of people a lot of time and money.
 

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I would rather abstain than have sex with a prostitute.

1. It's like making an acknowledgement that your game and SMV are so poor that you can't have sex unless you pay to have it
2. There's no emotionality at all, it's just a job for her (like a woman who gives it up to the beta husband she resents), so the sex probably wouldn't even be good
3. It costs money

Some of the best natural's I ever met love prostitutes. Why? Because they are completely over the challenge of the chase and ego boost portion of it and want just quick fast no drama sex. Hooking up with random hos but having to go through the dating rituals gets old after a while, especially when you have a busy work life. Just look at all the high status celebs and corporate higher ups who order prostitutes on the side when they can have any woman they want.... they just dgaf and want quick no questions asked sex.
 

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Is going ghost on a girl after sex the best way to get them coming back for more?
 

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Lol at some of the names. Book a slvt, dominhoes, pizza slvt, Rent A Slvt. Too funny.
 

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As for the OP, I think you're just burnt out. Take some time off and you'll feel the need to go out again.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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