"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I posted about a week ago about that girl who lives on my street who just says "hi" to me occasionally. We dont know each other well at all and we've actually never siad anything to each other other than "hi". well now im worried that she thinks im an idiot and not worth trying to be friends with. just curious as to how i can fix that. thanks.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Talk to her. You can't attract her of you don't talk to her.
 

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I know i have to but i dont know what to say to this particular girl. i dont see her all day but waiting for the bus in the after noon and walking home.
 

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Somebody recently suggested in another thread to offer her some gum. If she says yes, give it to her and continue talking. If she says no, playfully make fun of her for not liking gum or something like that. Continue with something like how was your day and go from there. I know it sounds lame, but she will probably have somethng interesting to say about her day.
 
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