"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I posted about a week ago about that girl who lives on my street who just says "hi" to me occasionally. We dont know each other well at all and we've actually never siad anything to each other other than "hi". well now im worried that she thinks im an idiot and not worth trying to be friends with. just curious as to how i can fix that. thanks.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Talk to her. You can't attract her of you don't talk to her.
 

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I know i have to but i dont know what to say to this particular girl. i dont see her all day but waiting for the bus in the after noon and walking home.
 

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Somebody recently suggested in another thread to offer her some gum. If she says yes, give it to her and continue talking. If she says no, playfully make fun of her for not liking gum or something like that. Continue with something like how was your day and go from there. I know it sounds lame, but she will probably have somethng interesting to say about her day.
 
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