too late too soon?

[thebiglimp]

thx amilz. your insight is also complimenting. yeah i do analyze too much, and it does delay me from moving on such as now.

i dunno, the tell-tale signs from day 1-20 and esp. the fidget were clear signs to me that she was interested. the staring and the eye locks were so aggressive that it made me sure this was going to be an easy lay, which is why i am so bummed at myself that it didn't happen.

another factor that i didn't consider mattered is that she is russian.
i am reading up on it that they are very aggressive on their IOI.
i doubt she was trying to play games with that.

 

[thebiglimp]

lastly could i ask why she's so avoiding of me now?

on day 29 and 3 days later when i had to visit the bar again, she was just trying to stay away from me as best as she can.
i still can't understand this turn of attitude since on day 27, after the second reject on the date, we ended the texting on a positive note, as it was actually the first time i got to say some funny stuff, and we exchanged the longest texts yet.
then come 29th, she acts as if i am some creep, even though as i review my actions so far, i haven't really been that offensive. desperate, yes, but never offending, i hope.

so i ask her out there again verbally, get a 'no', and let her know that i understand it's over. but she's at the worse attitude 3 days later...