"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Too late to do kino?

Carbert

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Mostly due to my own cowardice, I haven't done much kino for 3 weeks with this one girl. Is it too late to start?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hamno

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Well if you break into a full blown Kino fest its going to seem horribly out of place....start with something light, like innocently touching the arm and just act like you didnt think about it.

Hamno
 

Holland

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It's never too late.
I mean come on, would it matter if you do it now? It's not like she's gonna say: "Hey, I've known you for 3 weeks and you haven't touched me that much so you can't start now" or something like that. Just make sure you don't go too far at the beginning.
 

phloyd

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Three weeks is nothing. This is a true story that happened to me earlier this year:

So I met this girl on a group bicycle ride thing. we seemed to have a pretty good vibe going, so I went for the phone # and got it. I tried a few times to get a date set up but it never happened.

Now, I didn't completly next her because I would see her around and she always seemed interested but it wouldn't go any further.
I had other girls I was pursuing the whole time so it didn't really bother me. We were just always cool with each other.

So this goes on for like 6 months. One day after we went riding together, I decided to try a little kino to see what would happen.
As I was saying bye, I said "let me get a hug". For whatever reason, it changed everything.

Within one week we had our first date which ended up in a goodbye makeout session. It escalated to dating and sex for the next few months.

I've always known kino was a powerful thing, even years ago when I was totally clueless. I don't know why I took so long to give it a go with this one chick, as I usually work it in much sooner, but in my mind, I think anytime is a goog time to try!

Better late then never
 

solo1

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Better late than never. As long as it doesnt seem forced and is natural it will still work.

It's a form of human communication, just think of it like shaking hands.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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