I used to see this girl from another high school. Upon going to college, i havent been talking or seeing her as much, and during that time she got with another guy. Thats cool with me and im not really tripping out about it. The thing is, there were a couple of times when im just talking to her and she'd make it seem as if she wants to have sex. I remember once i was really drunk and i posted a comment on her myspace telling she has to take off her clothes to have fun, then she replied saying if i want to she will and i thought she was just messing with me. I didnt really think about it then i was talking casually to her on the phone the other day and she was teasing me and i sai d"f**k u" jokingly. She then replied with "i wish u do!" and "just kidding" after that and laughs. What's all this?! IS she just kidding or serious? She'salready with another person. It sounds too good to be true but i dont know if its worth my time trying to find out if it is.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Too Good to be True?
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IS she just kidding or serious?
There is only one way to find out...right? We can't give you the answer, only SHE can...so make your move and stop 'wondering' before an opportunity passes you by.
There is only one way to find out...right? We can't give you the answer, only SHE can...so make your move and stop 'wondering' before an opportunity passes you by.
Are you daft?
Why would she "joke" about it with someone she wouldn't AT LEAST entertain the IDEA of having sex with?
Seriously, she wouldn't joke like that if she wasn't at least into you a LITTLE bit.
Go for it. And by "go for it", I mean, tell her you are taking her out, and then escalate.
Why would she "joke" about it with someone she wouldn't AT LEAST entertain the IDEA of having sex with?
Seriously, she wouldn't joke like that if she wasn't at least into you a LITTLE bit.
Go for it. And by "go for it", I mean, tell her you are taking her out, and then escalate.
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knglerxt
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Vypros said:
Yeah. It's always the guy's fault. Or maybe she should just be a stand-up human being and treat people with respect.
never really done it before, so idont know what to doKings_royalty said:
the thing that gives me a lot of doubt is how she mentions her bf a lot. just today i asked her whats her plan for today, she told me she'll prolly be with her bf but asked me if i wanna go eat with her tonight.
Becuase it IS the guy's fault. That's why you are here. Right now on this site, learning about women...BECAUSE IT'S ALL YOUR FAULT.knglerxt said:
Until you make this realization. Until you come to this conclusion, there's nothing we can do to help you. At the end of the day, it comes down to YOU, the guy. Stop blaming women for everything. Stop pointing your finger this way or that way, and start pointing it back at yourself.
You're never going to get anywhere you need to be without realizing that YOU are the thing that's causing the problems in your life, and you alone. You control the direction of your life, the women you meet, the people you f**k. Until you put something inside of yourself that nobody can get to. Until you can get back up after an enormous failure and realize "Hey, it's ME!!! I'm the one who caused this", you will get NOWHERE.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.