I used to see this girl from another high school. Upon going to college, i havent been talking or seeing her as much, and during that time she got with another guy. Thats cool with me and im not really tripping out about it. The thing is, there were a couple of times when im just talking to her and she'd make it seem as if she wants to have sex. I remember once i was really drunk and i posted a comment on her myspace telling she has to take off her clothes to have fun, then she replied saying if i want to she will and i thought she was just messing with me. I didnt really think about it then i was talking casually to her on the phone the other day and she was teasing me and i sai d"f**k u" jokingly. She then replied with "i wish u do!" and "just kidding" after that and laughs. What's all this?! IS she just kidding or serious? She'salready with another person. It sounds too good to be true but i dont know if its worth my time trying to find out if it is.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Too Good to be True?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
afrojiggles
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Man.....grab Ur Balls For Heavens Sake Lest I Fvck Her For You
Kings_royalty
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IS she just kidding or serious?
There is only one way to find out...right? We can't give you the answer, only SHE can...so make your move and stop 'wondering' before an opportunity passes you by.
There is only one way to find out...right? We can't give you the answer, only SHE can...so make your move and stop 'wondering' before an opportunity passes you by.
Are you daft?
Why would she "joke" about it with someone she wouldn't AT LEAST entertain the IDEA of having sex with?
Seriously, she wouldn't joke like that if she wasn't at least into you a LITTLE bit.
Go for it. And by "go for it", I mean, tell her you are taking her out, and then escalate.
Why would she "joke" about it with someone she wouldn't AT LEAST entertain the IDEA of having sex with?
Seriously, she wouldn't joke like that if she wasn't at least into you a LITTLE bit.
Go for it. And by "go for it", I mean, tell her you are taking her out, and then escalate.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
knglerxt
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Vypros said:
Yeah. It's always the guy's fault. Or maybe she should just be a stand-up human being and treat people with respect.
never really done it before, so idont know what to doKings_royalty said:
the thing that gives me a lot of doubt is how she mentions her bf a lot. just today i asked her whats her plan for today, she told me she'll prolly be with her bf but asked me if i wanna go eat with her tonight.
Becuase it IS the guy's fault. That's why you are here. Right now on this site, learning about women...BECAUSE IT'S ALL YOUR FAULT.knglerxt said:
Until you make this realization. Until you come to this conclusion, there's nothing we can do to help you. At the end of the day, it comes down to YOU, the guy. Stop blaming women for everything. Stop pointing your finger this way or that way, and start pointing it back at yourself.
You're never going to get anywhere you need to be without realizing that YOU are the thing that's causing the problems in your life, and you alone. You control the direction of your life, the women you meet, the people you f**k. Until you put something inside of yourself that nobody can get to. Until you can get back up after an enormous failure and realize "Hey, it's ME!!! I'm the one who caused this", you will get NOWHERE.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.