"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Too good to ask women out

saki

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Do any of you guys ever have the feeling that you are too good to ask women out? I know I do, I usually let women come to me. I look for high IL, work my game a little by giving her some of the best of me, and then I cut her off completely and give her no attention unless she does something to earn it (sex) . I have steadfast patience and I wait for the kill. This is the way I do it, I know many of you have your own way, and I think that your own way with a little twist of DJ can go along way. Some of this stuff is just not my personality at all, like I could never see Jack Nicholson pulling some of the lines Ive heard on here. I guess I have a more traditional Cary Grant approach. Any thoughts on this?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Marlimus

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You sound like you're full of it, son.
 

everywomanshero

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Not really, my goal is to sleep with a different woman at least once a week. I am not especially picky as long as she has something about her that turns me on. I would say she must be at least a 7 with one great feature: butt face hair or something interesting about her character.

I want to master sexual techniques and I need 2-3 regulars and new girls at least weekly for this to happen. I am going MILF hunting at the mall tonight in fact and have 2 girls I can choose to visit in the evening should I be stuck with a simple Timebridge. Unfortunately, for the second time I have caught a minor STD, one of the bad things about sexual mastery is there is some risk to it.

I would never act like Jack Nicholson, I find him to be disgusting. He;s old, creepy, and way too serious for me.

IMHO making women chase you is the most rewarding experiences, so I can see why you'd rather spend time getting one to chase you proper than trying to manage a whole herd of difficult women who have to be strongly persuaded to chase. In the bedroom, there is only two ways great sex can be had: A) you dominate her (some chicks really do love this) or B) You get her to chase you (I've met few chicks who dont go crazy when I do this properly). It's subtle, but even the way you kiss can make her "chase you" with her tongue. As odd as it might sound, I am leading her into chasing me with B. It is not a passive thing that relies on fate.
 

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Espi said:
Nope...if I'm drawn to her, I'll approach her first...no problem.

Not many women open me. I guess I'm not as lucky as you.
Oh i dont mean I am so good that they just flock to me lol! I have to definately lay the foundation, or else this rarely works. Im just saying its really hard for me to kiss a womans azz in anyway, and I dont like cold approaches unless it feels right and we are already connecting. I think I just enjoy laying the rat trap and letting come in and take the bait. This has been my most successful technique.

Everyman yes it is much more rewarding for me this way. If I needed a booty call, I would be stuck with blue balls everytime I used this approach. This is more of something to do on the side. I have seen guys get girls to the point of stalking, even when they havent been sexual with them, and it facinates me that a guy could be that good. Like hunting, you have to wait and be patient Marlie son!
 
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