"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Too funny ..

tmpgstx

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I was on Yahoo chat earlier - one girl PMed me and started convo said i was cute etc. I just acted boring and talking about chat etc. Really boring crap, and she left.

I messaged a girl in my area and led the convo to a sexual overtone. It was funny - next thing you know she's asking me to take a shower with her and said wouldn't even need a room because we're in the same town.

Case in point: If they're attracted to you and you're boring, they lose attraction. If they're attracted to you and create some sort of tension whether it be sexual or what have you - it's like a snowball rolling down a hill, you gain all that momentum.

I think my highly logical mind is starting to finally grasp this somewhat (better be dammit). It's more about tension than anything.

I think a women needs this tension in order to be sexually gratified because they need that mental connection during sex. It's starting to make some sense. ****y and funny is just another form of tension you can create.

She's only going to spread her legs for a guy that makes her feel some sort of emotion towards him and that she is attracted to. She won't for someone who she finds boring, completely write them off. A guy is totally different and at the opposite end of this spectrum.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ok seeing how I am in somewhat of a good mood I'll be a little gentle with you,

Are you fvcking joking? Read what you just typed. You think your hot sh!t cuz some "girl" on the internet wants to shower with you. This "girl" can be anything from a 10 year old geeky nerd to a 55 year male pedophile. You are really gullible, and dont try to tell me you saw her pic cuz I can honestly take about 10 seconds to google some picture of a girl, and claim thats me. Also on a side note, I am selling some high quality super DJ Air, so yeah I will put it in a zip lock bag and mail it to you for $40, one breath of this and you will get all the ass in the world!!
 

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Whatever you moron. I did see her pic and recognized her from around town - this is why i messaged her in the first place (you have chat by locale), but i guess nimwits make generalized assumptions. Oh, and you can pretty much tell on chat whether it's a bot or an original picture. For one, the girls aren't mostly naked, and two, there are no 'see my picture at' porn links at the bottom - but that's all irrelvant to this situation anyway.

And no, i do not think i'm all that because of it, but am just giving my view of what worked and what didn't.

Obviously YOU have some issues. You come across as as one of those guys with an inferiority complex or something - so quit trying degrade someone or something you know nothing about.
 
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