"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Too flirty?!?

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illmatic1005

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i like talking to any girls, fat, ugly, 10s, average, and whoever. But a lot of times when it talk to groups of girls one girl always says. 'do you flirt with every girl?'

i didnt even kno i was flirting i was just having fun and being myself..but is it a good or bad quality that i flirt too much?

like lets say im going for one girl, but i flirt with all and the one girl sees,,,will the one girl try to flirt with every guy to get even, feel bad and lose interest, or try harder for me?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Rex Man

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It's a great quality it keeps you sharp. I just wouldn't flirt with any guys. No that there's any thing wrong with that! :whistle:
 
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When you are talking to a set, you've got to give attention to everyone at first so as to not make them feel uncomfortable, and get them beyond the "this guy is interupting us" mindset. Once you've established the approval of the group, which could take anywhere from 30 seconds to a couple of minutes, then you start focusing on that specific person and the group can justify it.

I actually had a girl in a group come at me with this same comment just today. I wasn't exactly approaching any girls in the group at the time, not interested, but I was trying to get some practice in... and the girl wanted to know why I was flirting with the whole group (except the guy), and I looked at the other people and said "Well this girl doesn't like to have a good time, does she" and I got a pretty good chuckle out of it, and she turned a little red!

As to flirting "too much," nah. As long as you are simply "flirting" and not accidently IOI'ng all the girls in the group, lol, you are fine. The point of flirting is to have fun, and people that are questioning you or not flirting back you should forget about anyway.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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illmatic1005 said:
...like lets say im going for one girl, but i flirt with all and the one girl sees,,,will the one girl try to flirt with every guy to get even, feel bad and lose interest, or try harder for me?
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