"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Too Flakey

TheWayOfAllFlesh

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This girl i'm chatting too is in my mates words 'shy and a bit weird' but shes a HB 7.5 so I thought I could get some. We have good rapport on MSN and Myspace and texting but on any of them whenever I mention hanging out or if shes free she stops texting/Iming/commenting. Then whenever I contact her next its like that never happened?

What the hell! I really need to meet up with her so i dont end up and e-boyfriend
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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drummer

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First don't chase.
Second get off the internet and do something else, talk to her in person, some texting works.
Third it sounds like she is just blowing you off.

Back off and see if she comes back. If not, forget her.
 

TheWayOfAllFlesh

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drummer said:
First don't chase.
Second get off the internet and do something else, talk to her in person, some texting works.
Third it sounds like she is just blowing you off.

Back off and see if she comes back. If not, forget her.
i cant meet her in person. shes always at school or work!

grrr!
 

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then you could call her and set something up. sorry, in the hs forum i assumed you see her a fair amount like at school
 

TheWayOfAllFlesh

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drummer said:
then you could call her and set something up. sorry, in the hs forum i assumed you see her a fair amount like at school
fair assumption but were from diff. schools
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

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