"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TheWayOfAllFlesh

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This girl i'm chatting too is in my mates words 'shy and a bit weird' but shes a HB 7.5 so I thought I could get some. We have good rapport on MSN and Myspace and texting but on any of them whenever I mention hanging out or if shes free she stops texting/Iming/commenting. Then whenever I contact her next its like that never happened?

What the hell! I really need to meet up with her so i dont end up and e-boyfriend
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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First don't chase.
Second get off the internet and do something else, talk to her in person, some texting works.
Third it sounds like she is just blowing you off.

Back off and see if she comes back. If not, forget her.
 
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drummer said:
First don't chase.
Second get off the internet and do something else, talk to her in person, some texting works.
Third it sounds like she is just blowing you off.

Back off and see if she comes back. If not, forget her.
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i cant meet her in person. shes always at school or work!

grrr!
 
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then you could call her and set something up. sorry, in the hs forum i assumed you see her a fair amount like at school
 
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drummer said:
then you could call her and set something up. sorry, in the hs forum i assumed you see her a fair amount like at school
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fair assumption but were from diff. schools
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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