"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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scene: social
chick: random girl (has connections to lots of people in my school and my other chick friends)
what happened: picked up, (she sorta came onto me as well), dirty dancing.. eg. leg between her thighs. danced for too long. after the social, she was holding hands n leaning on me.

problem:: how to tell her i don't want to go out with her?? or more like what should i do to give her the impression i don't want to continue? do i snob her off and hope she doesnt get my msn?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Do what a chick does, bring out the LJBF.
 
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the problem is, shes got a lot of friends..
so if she takes it the wrong way (would she?) then all her friends would start to think of me as a a**hole or a player.. and my chances with alotta chicks from her school wld just drop.....

n i don't want her to think i led her on.. (should i even be worried about this?)
 
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"I think you are a nice girl and I do not want to ruin our friendship so it would be better if we were just friends."

or

"I'm not looking for a girlfriend at the moment"

She should take the hint.
 
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ya man

i doubt she's going to start broadcasting how you turned her down to all her friends. would you?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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thanks for the advice guys

i didn't contact her and its been say 3 days already.. hopefully shes got the idea already... =)
 
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