"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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too far.

anonymousproblems

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scene: social
chick: random girl (has connections to lots of people in my school and my other chick friends)
what happened: picked up, (she sorta came onto me as well), dirty dancing.. eg. leg between her thighs. danced for too long. after the social, she was holding hands n leaning on me.

problem:: how to tell her i don't want to go out with her?? or more like what should i do to give her the impression i don't want to continue? do i snob her off and hope she doesnt get my msn?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Zaine

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Do what a chick does, bring out the LJBF.
 

anonymousproblems

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the problem is, shes got a lot of friends..
so if she takes it the wrong way (would she?) then all her friends would start to think of me as a a**hole or a player.. and my chances with alotta chicks from her school wld just drop.....

n i don't want her to think i led her on.. (should i even be worried about this?)
 
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"I think you are a nice girl and I do not want to ruin our friendship so it would be better if we were just friends."

or

"I'm not looking for a girlfriend at the moment"

She should take the hint.
 

Mr. Debonaire

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ya man

i doubt she's going to start broadcasting how you turned her down to all her friends. would you?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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anonymousproblems

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thanks for the advice guys

i didn't contact her and its been say 3 days already.. hopefully shes got the idea already... =)
 
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