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anonymousproblems

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scene: social
chick: random girl (has connections to lots of people in my school and my other chick friends)
what happened: picked up, (she sorta came onto me as well), dirty dancing.. eg. leg between her thighs. danced for too long. after the social, she was holding hands n leaning on me.

problem:: how to tell her i don't want to go out with her?? or more like what should i do to give her the impression i don't want to continue? do i snob her off and hope she doesnt get my msn?
 

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Do what a chick does, bring out the LJBF.
 

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the problem is, shes got a lot of friends..
so if she takes it the wrong way (would she?) then all her friends would start to think of me as a a**hole or a player.. and my chances with alotta chicks from her school wld just drop.....

n i don't want her to think i led her on.. (should i even be worried about this?)
 
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"I think you are a nice girl and I do not want to ruin our friendship so it would be better if we were just friends."

or

"I'm not looking for a girlfriend at the moment"

She should take the hint.
 

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ya man

i doubt she's going to start broadcasting how you turned her down to all her friends. would you?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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thanks for the advice guys

i didn't contact her and its been say 3 days already.. hopefully shes got the idea already... =)
 
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