You stride confidently with a smile on your face. Even when you don't feel happy. No, Especially when you don't feel happy. You have a joyful aura around you. It makes others happy to be around you. You walk into everything confidently knowing that no one can shoot you down because you're too fvcking busy being awesome to care what they think.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
SilverSonnet
Senior Don Juan
TheEdgeOf said:
Like a lampost?:crackup:
In Motion
Senior Don Juan
Hahahaha, omg, thanks for the laugh :crackup:SilverSonnet said:
I just keep imagining this guy walking around with a big grin an his arms akimbo, then *BAM*. Lampost.
That's what I meant. When you're not happy, don't let it affect you. When something bad happens to you, don't let it change anything for you. In fact, when something bad happens to you, you should concentrate more on all the good things you have going for you and just put the bad things in the back seat.ZenGodMod said:
And i loved the lamp post comment lol
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
ZenGodMod said:
At least fake it until you make it. This will send signals to your subconscious mind and start reprogramming it to form new positive subconscious thoughts and habits.
It's a lot better than doing the same ole thing and ending up with the same ole life.
SilverSonnet
Senior Don Juan
Lol it's cool, just popped up, so you know, give everyone a lil' laughTheEdgeOf said:
Sir I
Don Juan
YOU GO CAPTAIN AWESOME
rofl, when I'm not happy I'm not happy it doesn't mean I will put on a fake laugh, last night at the club I work was chaos a few people called in sick so I had to run from one area to another to assist at those moments I wasn't happy I had my I'm working my ass off face on. but those moments in between I had my smile on as you have to enjoy what you are doing and look for amusement around you there is allways something that will make you smile.
rofl, when I'm not happy I'm not happy it doesn't mean I will put on a fake laugh, last night at the club I work was chaos a few people called in sick so I had to run from one area to another to assist at those moments I wasn't happy I had my I'm working my ass off face on. but those moments in between I had my smile on as you have to enjoy what you are doing and look for amusement around you there is allways something that will make you smile.
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Good philosophy. I've been working on that. Just looking for shìt that makes me smile in anything and everything. Train your mind to draw itself toward the good, and it seems to make you magnetic.