"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I am having my second date with a HB9 in about 30 mins. She is bringing a movie, and a bottle of wine. I am cooking my favorite meal for us. I am in the Military and I workout twice a day and eay non stop. I am posting this for the forums entertainment and to hold myself accountable. I would say that I am going to end up sleeping with her tonight. Our last date we went out to dinner and then she begged me to take her dancing. We just got all over each other and made out all night on the floor, ask her to come home she said not yet.

I prefer to cook for women over taking them to dinner because it
a. saves me money
b. they seem to like it
C. I need to high a high protein diet
D. They are in my Apt my home turf..

Apartment is spotless bathroom is immaculent, checked it over a few times, no random pubes or anything. Whole place smells like choc cake and cinnamon apples.

Will report later tonight or tomm afternoon after work.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ok its 12:15 she just left. She was a bit late, no biggie dinner was ready when she walked in. She gave me a hug, not the hot make out session I was looking for. We drank a bunch of wine ate some chicken and talked for a bit. She put in some movie and we pretended to watch it for 5 mins. I got up made some berrys and whipped cream, sat down and started to massage her. After 10 mins I went in for the kiss. We fumbled around on the couch before I said lets go to my bed where we will have more room.. 1 hour later and 2 condoms later I had a nice smile on my face as did she, and life is good at my apt. She went home, I am typing this before I pass the F out...

I am pretty darn happy, and do not care that I have to be up at 4:30am tommorw...

I will tell you that on the outside i think cooking a chick dinner seems like a beta afc move. But as stated earlier, it put her on my home turf, my music, my house, my drinks, and I avoided the lets go back to my place shuffle( where she debates going home with me or trying to hold out..)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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vitor said:
I will tell you that on the outside i think cooking a chick dinner seems like a beta afc move. But as stated earlier, it put her on my home turf, my music, my house, my drinks, and I avoided the lets go back to my place shuffle( where she debates going home with me or trying to hold out..)
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AFC move, my azz.
You have enticed her into your cave and she came along willingly. No club required.
Women who enter YOUR cave know what you want and why you invited them, and their presence says that they are eager participants in 'the plan '.

Good job.
 
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I try to run this same game with every chick, 1-2 dates, brag im a good cook and get them to come over. Learn to cook 1-2 things and its to easy...
 
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The only people who would have the balls to call this a "beta" move are the ones who are sleeping with rosy palms on a regular basis.

props to you. Keep it up!
 
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