"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Tonight is a BIG night boys..

toddC

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Alright boys, well after last night I'm feeling pretty confident. Now let me tell you the situation for tonight...

This girl is the SOLE reason I came to SS. Shes by far the hottest girl I've EVER met. Now after saying that...I started hanging out with her last summer. I didn't get with her until spring break of this year. We were both drunk and I just ended up hookin up with her. Now just recently we saw each other at some party (shes from a diffrent town) and since then shes called me EVERY single night to hang out. I just kept on saying yea and then canceling and it def worked haha...Now tonight I'm finally hanging out with her and her friends. They are comin over to my friends house (hes having a party) and were gettin drunk and goin swimming. This is def. my opportunity to pull something with her.

Do you guys think that she def. wants me from all those calls and what not?

I'll update you guys on how the night went when I get home either tonight or tommorow.

toddC OUTT
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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pooparu

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Yo man, you'll do great (if you can read this, if not then I'm sure you did).

Just don't get all pressured or nervous (shouldn't be hard with the help of the alcohol :p).

Have fun man, and be safe you dirty man you :p.

P.S. All women want you. Whether they know it or not ;)
 

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you are so far in its not funny.
ps grab her tits in pool.
 

toddC

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Well boys, she calls me at about 11 and says they will be there at 1130 so I'm happy. They get there and call me to come outside because they don't want to walk in alone. So we walk in and my friend's (who was the one who had people over) twin sister was FLIPPING out because she doesn't like this girl and she wants her out. Now I had no idea that his sister hated this girl. Well his sister started screaming at me to get them to leave and I didn't know wtf to do I was just so angry at her. Anyways she ended up yellin at them and I ended up having my girl sit on my lap for like an hour in her friends car while we were all just talking...thats as much ass as i got for the night lol....fvckin sisters!!!!
 

AC/DC

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Awwww c*ck block!

Somethin gay always happens huh? Life never goes according to plan... lol

Keep up the good work my man
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dutchy

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F*ck man, no plan survives the first contact with the target. But this was some really bad luck.
This is why I don't prever other people during a conversation with a girl I like. They can distract the target or mess everything up.
Better call her and ask her to come over for a "private" party to your place to make up for the f*cked up night last time. Bet it will turn out better this time

Keep your head up man

Greetz from Holland:up:
 

toddC

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she actually is a VERY big b*tch and started sceaming at me and I just snapped and ended up making her cry. I haven't spoken to her in a few days. :) lol....on the other hand I'm hanging out with the girl again tonight haha...TAKE 2! lol
 

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If a girl calls you alot, that has to be it.
 

itishe

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There is a fat ***** who calls me all the time, she has hot friends but I don't want to hang around her too much.:mad:
 
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