"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Tonight, I saw reasoning of why some men DESTROY women for the first time!

J. Darko

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Ease said:
All you guys saying he's a loser, like this:



Need to stfu.

I'm feeling you on this. I'm sick of fighting the urge to backhand a ***** on a night out. The thing i can't stand is when a girl pulls a move like pushing you or insulting/talking bs. The kind of move that when a guy pulls, a fight is guarenteed to ensue. But they have the security that nothing will happen and can **** with any guy they see, and they will just take it and apologize.

The thing that just tops it all off, is when you say 'What the **** are you doing?' to the girl, a captain save a hoe comes out of the background and tries to pick a fight for the sluts honour.
Not only that, people also shoot and eat cute little bunnies to keep them from overpopulating the Earth. That's life.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i used to have this firecracker lady friend for girls who got in my face

she was a little younger and fancied me but i was like ljbf

she has slapped the poop outta a few chicks who got out of line

but alas she got pregnant calmed down alot.

i need a new regulator chick
 

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FutureSpartan said:
An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure....next time always have the whole group of girls engaged. Don't immediately go for the target. Even if she has demonstrated interest in you, you run the risk of getting ****blocked by her friends if they feel like they aren't getting some level of attention from you.
This. Engage ALL the friends. Win the friends over FIRST, THEN isolate the girl.
 

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Sorry, but some of you are so fvckin dumb.... You read the first post and then attack the poster that he is a loser and an idiot ...without giving any real advice, or thinking about how you would act in the same situation.
"she's not a loser. You are a loser. She did her job as a girl. You didn't do your job as a man." ....WTF is this? how can you write such a sh!t?
I know that type of girl, she is an insecure ugly sh!t who tries to act masculine. I also had problems with them and it takes a huge self control to not to kick them in the face.
 

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tsk tsk tsk,

You guys are wrong(two of you are close). The first rule of society is SAFETY IN NUMBERS. That is the basic premise of all civilizations. She had it. You didn't. Well, you actually abandoned it and immediately got burned. I don't know how you approached, but it seems like you were the only guy out of your group to step up. If thats the case, then you need to have a talk with your friends. You guys need to back each other up, period. If one goes, you all go. This is why you never approach the herd on your own. If you do, ALWAYS engage the ENTIRE herd. "HEY BRUNETTE" treats the other girls as if they don't exist even though they are standing right there. The black girl was the only one willing to say something and put you in check for your dis-respect.

Lets recap:
First dis-respect was committed when your friends decided they weren't worth approaching.
Second dis-respect was committed when you acknowledged one girls existence and not the others.

Now, lets look at all the lessons to be learned here:
1) Respect. Yourself first, others second. Win or lose. You fight for this.
2) In more ways than you realize, Safety in numbers. but...
3) It is a false sense of security if you don't Back each other up.
4) With women, the conversation begins before a single word is spoken.

There's probably more, but this is what I came up with in the time it took me to read the thread.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bah, this is one of those tricky situations where there´s no easy answer.

Sure we are taught to never hit a woman, it´s not manly, chivalresque, nice, whatever, but the problem is that that standard of behaviour was created in different times, when women themselves had different standards of behaviour and would never pull that kind of sh1t. Now they do it because they know they can, society is tolerant towards it, and then the cherry on top of the cake is that they benefit from an infamous double standard, they can pull that kind of sh1t but still expect to be treated as "ladies".

Thats just ****ed up, basically, men nowadays are getting deeper and deeper into uncharted territory. They are still expected to abide by the old rules by some women, while at the same time lots of women are throwing that in the trash and trying to rewrite them so that they can have their cake and eat too, and they´re having a ball watching us scratch our heads while they do it.

And if by some reason you do lose it and hit a woman you'll face all sorts of consequences, from the shaming to legal problems. Even if you are just defending yourself from some crazy b1tch you´re more likely to get in trouble than her, you can even have bystanders getting in your face.

So, overall I think the OP dealt with the situation pretty well, he just had some bad luck and had a close encounter of the third kind with some major psycho b1tch, and thats never easy.
 

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Shoulda kicked her fvcking azz! B!tches shouldn't be allowed to talk that way to men...
 

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J. Darko said:
she's not a loser. You are a loser. She did her job as a girl. You didn't do your job as a man. You've been here for months and you still don't know how to walk away. You're still a whiny little girl complaining about other girls because you don't have any succes with them. Maybe things get better after you finished elementary school, if not, at least you will have grown some pubic hair to help your manhood.


Good luck.
That's fvcking retarded. You're retarded.

And the other kid with the same ridiculous uber-manly stance is a retard as well. Sharinguser or whatever.

EDIT: OH NO SHARINGUSER TOOK AWAY MY REP!!! NOOOOOOOOO NOW WHO WILL RESPECT ME ON THE INTERNET????
 
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this is where you bring in a wing man, to game her and save ur a$$. I've seen it done before. Hell i've had to do it before. I've never taken home an ugg but i know guys that have taken it as far as that.
 

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OK. That was entertaining. Kinda new here and this was the 1st 'fight' I've ever read in this forum. Well, I'm gonna go give my opinion because that's why we're all here anyway, right?

1. Mad Ghost didn't hit the girl. He only said she deserved it. I would never condone violence towards women but it would be unrealistic to say that there aren't 1 or 2 out there who don't deserve it. Years ago, a girl really insulted my kid brother for his stuttering problem. (uhm..not really a big deal, I know now but we lost our parents early so I'm a little overprotective of my kid brother, OK?) I wanted to hit her but I didn't. And I'm glad I didn't, but I remember thinking that she deserved it and that it would be a different story if she were a guy.

2. I think it's good that Mad Ghost let out his frustration here rather than actually resort to violence in the real world. We're all just human after all. Even the most confident man in the world probably gets angry sometimes.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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it all happens for a reason... what happened here is a situation that happens a lot. when the girl jumps in like that, you must learn how to disarm them. coming in like a bigshot player with some "wassup cutie" is definately not going to cut it. that's why you should add some politeness to it, a simple "hey girls, i like your friend, is it cool if I talk to her for a minute?" should work, then when they're isolated they will be easier to game.
 

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J. Darko said:
she's not a loser. You are a loser. She did her job as a girl. You didn't do your job as a man. You've been here for months and you still don't know how to walk away. You're still a whiny little girl complaining about other girls because you don't have any succes with them. Maybe things get better after you finished elementary school, if not, at least you will have grown some pubic hair to help your manhood.


Good luck.
welcome to 2010 where everything is the mans fault
 

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Ice882 said:
That's fvcking retarded. You're retarded.

And the other kid with the same ridiculous uber-manly stance is a retard as well. Sharinguser or whatever.

EDIT: OH NO SHARINGUSER TOOK AWAY MY REP!!! NOOOOOOOOO NOW WHO WILL RESPECT ME ON THE INTERNET????

Just brilliant, you and sensitive sally must really get along well at the girls club.
 

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Just brilliant, you and sensitive sally must really get along well at the girls club.
You're just making it worse for yourself.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It would be acceptable if he was funny with it, but unfortunately he's not. He came back after 6 months, thinking everyone would give him a welcome back hello. Meh! Go away dude or you gotta un-ass some of that shoot? Get the K-Y dawg.
 

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This thread was way better when the discussion was about women. You guys can bicker and tease each other with PMs.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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