"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Tone of voice

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I was think about "tone of voice", and how important it is when communicating with girls. I had a friend who used to talk to every girl like he was already sleeping with them. He talked in "hushed tones". Most men talk AT women, and not TO them. This is a sure fire recipe for friendship, if you ask me. So it's "hushed tones" for the DJ's, and higher tones, for the friend....
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So it's "hushed tones" for the DJ's, and higher tones, for the friend....
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I'm not so sure about that one. I'm pretty loud and obnoxious. I get noticed quite a bit.

It's hard to get noticed or stand out when you're always talking in "hushed tones"
 
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Originally posted by VinceGallo
I was think about "tone of voice", and how important it is when communicating with girls. I had a friend who used to talk to every girl like he was already sleeping with them. He talked in "hushed tones". Most men talk AT women, and not TO them. This is a sure fire recipe for friendship, if you ask me. So it's "hushed tones" for the DJ's, and higher tones, for the friend....
Hope this makes sense
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Interesting topic.

I don't think vocals are talked about enough on these boards. I do exercises everyday with my voice and breathing so that I'm on top of my verbal game. When I'm in my car I like to belt out songs at the top of my voice. You'll notice that after you do this your voice will be deeper and more seductive... no bs. Also for breathing exercises, try breathing out as much air as possible in one breath.. do this a few times. Read the paper out loud to get a smoother speaking voice. Freestyle rap to get quicker word turnovers...
 
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When you lower your voice to a person you have to get more intimate with them. I agree with Vince. Bringing your voice down requires the female to get closer and its as if you're sharing a moment together. This can help your "game" or what have you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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that's what I meant....it forces her to get closer...even if what you're saying is total BS small talk, she'll feel you're sharing something special with her....add some good solid eye contact and body language, and you're all set...
this doesn't mean you shouldn't be loud or obnoxious at times, especially in groups, women love that too...shows manliness
 
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