Tonality

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

bbestar

Banned

Jan 24, 2006

If you were thinking about improving your voice, the first step I suggest is to buy a digital voice recorder at your local radioshack, and record normal conversations, telephone conversations.

ok now, maybe you don't like your voice. Maybe your voice is soo.. monotone.

The key to improving your voice is emphasis on key words.

for example instead of saying

" I was Hoping to borrow your car again today"

say this

_____Hoping_____________again
I was ------ to borrow your car __today"

emphasis on the hoping and again.
It maybe difficult at first, try to practice atleast 15 min a day, using normal conversation sentences.
Gone

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.