"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"Tomboy'ish" Women

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So I've met this girl on a date yesterday, we both live in a small town, and currently there is one popular festivals during this weekend.

This is probably the first time I get a girl like this, she seemed to have a fair interest level for me, but she is one of those girls that prefer male friends to women (she seems like anti feminist in terms of discussion), feminine behavior but with short nails and no jewelry. There was no kino but she did talk a lot with me just throwing some feedback and changing topics from time to time, paid me coffee and drinks.

I'm in my early twenties but she is close to 30. She arrived late without giving a prior warning (30mins, sent a msg and a single phone call I probably overreacted a bit) and talked a little about her ex (which seemed they broke a few months ago). Date ended a couple of hours after, she gave the usual comment "I had fun, talk to me in facebook so we can do something next weekend", I replayed with a simple "yeah sure")

Just wanted some tips how to proceed, since I'm thinking I will get friend zoned in here. Currently in a no contact until she shows interest somehow.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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shes just another woman... proceed as you would... Even though a girl says she prefers guy friends and all that bullsh1t of what girls bring to the table as friends (drama, bs, issues , etc). They are still women on the inside, they can't change what is encoded in their DNA just by their looks.
 

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JohnChops said:
shes just another woman... proceed as you would... Even though a girl says she prefers guy friends and all that bullsh1t of what girls bring to the table as friends (drama, bs, issues , etc). They are still women on the inside, they can't change what is encoded in their DNA just by their looks.
I'm probably reading too much into it. Still I felt like I was talking to a man, she was too open minded to topics such as porn and "trashtalk" other women.

I will just do my usual game, but it's the first girl after I took the red pill that should probably taken slowly which seems I'm getting categorized as another "friend".
 
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