"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Desert Fox

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wow...I read about this guy in one of Rollo's posts and he is pretty damn spot on about .... almost everything.

Preaches working hard ... damn it's so inspirational. If you guys haven't checked it out...you really should.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You may also of saw him advertised in my sig.

Yeah though the Tom Leykis show is required listening for most members of the discussion forum as the AFCery is rampant there.
 

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KontrollerX said:
You may also of saw him advertised in my sig.

Yeah though the Tom Leykis show is required listening for most members of the discussion forum as the AFCery is rampant there.
yeah actually it might have been one of your posts. it was in that thread about some guy crying about LJBF
 

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After looking him up, I came across his tenets. To be honest, he seems like a bit of a douche. He attempts to be the exact opposite of the nice guy, rather than incorporate all the best elements from all different types of guys to build an actual Don Juan. His stuff probably is good to help with the messy business of removing AFC's from the Matrix and feminisation, due to them having too invested too much of their ego in crap like 'the one' and 'girls like nice guys', etc.; but all in all it is hardly Don Juan stuff.

In fact, some of it seems quite silly and counter productive.

Approaching women in groups
, for example. This is utter rubbish. Women travel in groups because they are social creatures who do not want to appear unpopular, and because of safety in numbers (a girl in a group is less likely to get hit on by hordes of frustratingly banal AFC's). If you've read any PUA at all you'll know that picking up women in groups is easily done. Sure, you've got to circumvent the fat friend who is the **** blocker, but it's still easily done if you know what to do. And finding women alone in bars is quite hard nowadays.

Meet women in bars is another piece of horrendously counter-productive 'advice'. Does he really think girls will approach the man quietly sitting in the corner, creepily scanning the room watching the action? No, they will not, for they think he is the hopelessly shy guy afraid to make a move. They will not waste their time on you when you're removed from the action - they'll be too busy getting hit on by people brave enough to approach. One of the main reasons he gives to support this 'advice' is that we will not be buying drinks for girls who will not sleep with us. Well, the real advice is to not buy drinks for girls you have not already slept with.

Although Types of dates does have a good point, it's still wrong. Nothing wrong with a coffee date for the first or second time. The no-threat factor conceals your intentions leaving her wondering if you really like her. Dinner dates are the ones to avoid - so clichéd!
 

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There is something about him that I can't stand to listen to.
He knows his stuff but he makes me cringe, like he is trying too hard to sound alpha or something. I don't really know what it is.

I feel like I should give him more of a chance since he comes so highly recommended by KX.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you listen to him once, you've pretty much heard it all and then his show is just the same thing over and over again. If you say anything to him he doesn't like he'll go on and on about how rich and successful he is....

The real puzzies are the one's that call up and have Tom call their girlfriend so they can break up with them on the air. If you aren't man enough to do that on your own, you have no business dating a woman. Plus it is completely degrading and humiliating to a woman to do that. I am not saying some women aren't trash because some are, but that does not mean a guy has to stoop to that level. Be a man, grow a pair, take care of your business yourself, and move on.
 

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I think he is fine for the superAFC that needs a wake up call. but he gets tiresome and repetitive after a while and has many personality deficiencies.
 

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I agree with about 80% of what Leykis professes. He's brilliant in that he's tapped into a niche that needs an outlet. Kind of the anti-Dr. Phil. He expresses and give a platform for the frustrations a lot of guys experience. That said, it's a radio show (and a wildly popular one too). While I agree with him in principle and think his info is at least a spark for AFCs to re-think their beliefs, his delivery is rough. He has to be. Imagine for a moment the standard AFC over at LoveShack hearing Leykis for the first time; it's like a slap in the face that they need. If nothing else, he's a catalyst for chumps.
 

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Rollo Tomassi said:
I agree with about 80% of what Leykis professes. He's brilliant in that he's tapped into a niche that needs an outlet. Kind of the anti-Dr. Phil. He expresses and give a platform for the frustrations a lot of guys experience. That said, it's a radio show (and a wildly popular one too). While I agree with him in principle and think his info is at least a spark for AFCs to re-think their beliefs, his delivery is rough. He has to be. Imagine for a moment the standard AFC over at LoveShack hearing Leykis for the first time; it's like a slap in the face that they need. If nothing else, he's a catalyst for chumps.

What is the 20% of what he says that you disagree with, and why?
 
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Wow, this guy is a riot. I just listened to two of his shows and he's telling women that call in who cheated on their boyfriends slvts and wh0res (and after a while they eventually agree with him), and when you break up with a woman you should tear apart her self esteem to bring up your own self esteem because it works. He also says when you breakup with a women you should have sex with any thing with a vugina that moves thats human and over 18 including fat and ugly women. :crackup:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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KontrollerX said:
You may also of saw him advertised in my sig.

Yeah though the Tom Leykis show is required listening for most members of the discussion forum as the AFCery is rampant there.
Can you post that link? I don't see it in your sig anymore.
 
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