"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Told wrong info to girl

TheTurtle

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Hello, fellow DJ's...

I told this girl to meet me at a place for coffee and dessert next Saturday. It turns out, the place I told her to meet me does not have those things on the menu. Do I:
1) Text the night before and tell her the "menu" has changed but the place is the same
OR​
2) Text the night before and tell her the place has changed but the "menu" is the same

I see the good and bad of both options and choosing the best one is proving challenging. Your input is encouraged and appreciated.
Thanks!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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2Rocky

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"Hey I was wrong about "Cafe le Bang" They do vegan sushi not coffee and bagels. Got your heart set on C&B?"

She will text back a preference... Make the decision. If she waffles, then be decisive.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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