"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Told that I look pissed off and got avoided cuz of it... but I'm rarely pissed..wtf?

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Yea today at a party I went to in my school I was talking to two girls and they told me that they saw me around school and were going to say hi to me, but the fact that I supposedly look pissed off all the time caused them to forget it. I've been told this on a couple occasions by different people, the last time was by a guy @ my summer job. WTF? I'm rarely pissed off so theres got to be something going on with my face that I'm not aware of. How can you look approachable relatively easily besides having a grin on your face 24/7. I'm starting to realize that the way I look is probably impacting my social life negatively and giving people the wrong impression about me.. Even one of my friends referred to me as a mean looking guy once. This is not a good thing.....
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

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I think some of it may be attitude. I used to look "pissed off" a few years ago myself. I think it was just a sulky, unhappy, pessimistic attitude I have. It has a very subtle reflection on your face, but it's remarkable how even a microscopic contraction of a facial muscle changes everything.

I actually have this stupid thing I came up with, but I believe it works. I printed out a sheet of paper that says "SMILE. Today is the best day of your life." That's all. I taped this on the wall right next to my bathroom mirror. I looked at it every morning (big bold letters are kinda hard to miss) and grin at myself in the mirror. It sets the mood for the rest of the day.
 
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Well, nor can I. But if you always walk around...just..whatever, and it's making you look intimidating, maybe you should consider it? Laugh, crack jokes, become enjoyable to be around, yeah? :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

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