told my mate...

[SilverSonnet]

Told my best mate what I thought of him. He always picks on me, saying I fvck my sister etc, taking the p1ss out of my mum etc, so I told him what a d1ck I think he is.
I've been waiting to see if he'd change of his own accord, and become a more mature guy, didn't happen. I'm kinda upset I had to do this, but I REFUSE to be disrespected like this. My mum was bullied at work by a group of women for a few years, and my sister was bullied all through from being 4 up until 16, so I never want to be like that.

Also, I pulled to cute girls numbers yesterday. so, should be good

good luck guys, and never let anyone walk over you, even if it is your best mate.

ben

 

[sav]

bullies suck....

they bring you down to pull themselves up...

i've been a bully before, said a lot of **** to a lot of people i shouldnt have.. but you live and learn and now i have learned to respect people a lot more and things have really turned themselves around for me...

you seem to have the right attitude about it.. keep it up and you will draw better people to you

 

[Prodigy746]

How did he react?? Did he apologize or change his behaviors???

 

[BlakeW5]

Good for you. There's a difference between playing around with your friends and intentionally trying to hurt them. People that intentionally try to hurt you aren't you're friends. I'm glad you came to this realization, not many do.

 

[SilverSonnet]

How did he react?? Did he apologize or change his behaviors???

He said something like this : "I wish you'd do it back to me, and take the p1ss out of my family too, it's funny"
I said I didn't find it funny at all, and told him I didn't want to be that guy who everybody hates because I take the p1ss out of them.
He said: "So your saying you dont wanna be me? Lol, harsh"
I said : "well, yeah."
He said he's going to stop doing it to me from now on, let's see how it goes..

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

Sh1t . He said " you fvck your sister " ??

Omg thats too much . Thats not funny at all . Please go grab a baseball bat and break it in his head when he say it again .

In my country , if you make fun with someones sister you can be beaten/stabbed to death . Thats not funny :box: . They gotta respect at least our family if they dont respect us :box:

Sorry for negative post just wanted to write it .

 

[Sir I]

I have a huge amount of people I know, there is a good amount of people I can hang out with, only a 10th of them I considder friends and only 5 I considder as my best friends and they are my best friends cause there is a line of mutual respect and understanding next to a certain level of intelligence present with these ladds that I can count on what ever matter without any hesitation.

anyone who sais go **** your sister is a stupid F who should be ignored

pick your friends on personality not on the amount of time you can spend with someone.

 

[Technical1]

Hey Ben, could you please start some more threads?

I'm inviting over some buddies and were all gonna take turns trying to solve your problems, so we need something to work with. Maybe if you could start 4 or 5 threads by sundown tommorow that would be great, it would give us alot to work with. thanx!

 

[MacAvoy]

Different strokes for different folks. I've had friends where we do this type of thing all the time. We cut each other up, its a sign of closeness. However you have to be real close buddies otherwise its bullying and lame.

However considering he's your best mate and he said he wishes you would do it to, makes me think he's not bullying, he's just tryin to have fun. I'd say lighten up and learn to take a joke. I've never understood why guys get their panties in a bunch when someone talks about their mamma, to me its a sign of insecurity, but thats just my opinion.

 

[DonGorgon]

Domestic hostility and violence suck...