Told more then once "you're not agressive enough"

[PeasantPlayer]

I'm having problems finding that middle switch when I meet women and go out on dates. One chick I met from Tinder HB5, average looking chick, but I thought why not let's see what happens, enjoy the process. We were talking conversation was flowing, when we got in to the car she made it known she wanted to hang out more and go somewhere else (BOOM) then 5 minutes later she hits me with the "you're not aggressive enough" "I don't think you have a lot of experience with women" I started laughing. I thought to myself ok, we'll see what happens later that night

2nd chick I met at the bar, she struck a conversation with me. Started talking, she started talking about sex. So I thought to myself this should be easy, and it was grabbed her number, but she had to leave her friends were leaving. Met her up 2 days later, we were talking conversation was flowing,but I notice her yawn after 20-30 minutes a few times. So my insecurities popped up "Am I boring her?" blah blah blah. After we went out grab drinks and ate, the same song was being played "you're not aggressive enough" Now I feel like I am missing the subtle hints which I thought I was good at picking up on.

Where do I start to make my moves and not come off as desperate or thirsty is what I am trying to say? I think I date not to lose the girl. Like a coach coaches not to lose (conservativeish) but deep down I am not conservative, I just don't want to make a move to soon and end up missing out on some P*ssy? Where do I find the balance? When do I strike? How do I start up KINO? I think this has been my biggest problem

 

[Bingo-Player]

Its quite clear your allowing women in your life too much control over you

The first girl

“she made it known she wanted to hang out more and go somewhere else”

Right well for starts why are you letting a HB 5 !!!!!....... let YOU know she wants to hangout more lol

As a man That’s your decision not hers, the first date doesn’t need to be hours and hours long rock up introduce yourself give her a taste of you and fvck off

your supposed to be a busy guy with a que of plates at your disposal not some Hb 5’s playtoy

the second one

“i notice her yawn so my insecurities pop up”

bro shes probably yawning because shes been up all night riding D1ck don’t take it to heart

there is no “balance” in dating you lead she follows - simple as that

if there is a “balance” then you are probably being played son