"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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told her to call me instead

MattS

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ok so i found this chick on myspace that i had a little past with. im not going to get into details but at one point we were about to fvck and i couldnt due to the alcohol, in her bed and everything. blasted her selfesteem and sh!t went downhill she thought i was the biggest d1ck. its been like 5 months since we even talked.
i found her wrote her a comment simply saying "hey punk" she replied with how are u blah blah. i replied back calling her a dork etc. (she always replies with somehting countering the names.) then i said i dont have ur number anymore but heres mine. she replied back saying blah bblah and siad heres my number call me sometime. now before she would say that i would and she would flake most of the time except a couple of times. i would stop calling she would text me asking to hang out etc. so anyways i replied to her and said u call me this weekened if you wanna come with us and so on. right move or wrong?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Jack McCrack

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Punctuation is good.

Anyways, just wait it out.

You must be pretty giddy if you're typing like you are right now.
 

Pimp-sicle

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Wrong move!!!! You could've taken control of the situation by calling her, but you gave all the power to her by asking her to call you. Now you'll be left anxiously looking at each phone call to see if its her and most likely you'll be disappointed because chicks don't call guys unless they have HIGH INTEREST!!

Live and learn, and next time use the search button, that's what its there for......



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