"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Today we're going to discuss facts about younger and older women!

Megaman XIV

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Kailex said:
Maybe I am confused about the message you are trying to convey, but I'm reading this as:

- This is what you MUST do if you are ugly/uninteresting and want to be with women.


After reading it again, now it sounds more like:

- This is what ugly/uninteresting people resort to in order to be with women.

Which one of these rings true for the thread?
I assumed it must be a joke because advising to become drug dealers to get with women... well, not practical. But underlining the fact that there are men out there who become drug dealers because of the "Scareface syndrome", well, that's not far off from reality at times.
Yes, this is what ugly/uninteresting people usually resort to to get girls all over them. Some of these guys become drug dealers and have women hanging all on them. It's gotta be the money and all that comes with it.

Then there are guys who rely on LUCK. Does luck really help get girls? I don't think so.

Even grannies and moms and cougars are attracted to someone using one of the 7 points above.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Please, stop saying that 10% of the guys are ****ing 90% of the women wich is just ludicrous ( this is also spread by the community and it´s far more ridiculous that saying looks don´t matter) ....
Most average guys I know are fvcking as much as average girls.... Of course, and I don´t mean to offend, but if your friends are nerds, and I dont mean ugly, I mean nerds wich is worst than ugly it means they will have harder time fvcking than a 50 y o women. So you get that perception.

What also happens here, is that extremely ugly guys suddenly find pua material, and go for hottest chicks, and then they get all offended when they flaked. Listen this girls put a lot in life, in their beauty, in their social life etc..., it´s not enough you just neg her or be a challenge.
About hot chicks you have two types, both types of course have lots of guys to choose.

1) the very picky one, only had 1 or 2 boyfriends and thinks almost no man is good for her.

2) the big *****, who takes advantadge of being successful.

I just thought a reality check was needed...
 

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JdelaSilviera said:
Please, stop saying that 10% of the guys are ****ing 90% of the women wich is just ludicrous ( this is also spread by the community and it´s far more ridiculous that saying looks don´t matter) ....
Most average guys I know are fvcking as much as average girls.... Of course, and I don´t mean to offend, but if your friends are nerds, and I dont mean ugly, I mean nerds wich is worst than ugly it means they will have harder time fvcking than a 50 y o women. So you get that perception.

What also happens here, is that extremely ugly guys suddenly find pua material, and go for hottest chicks, and then they get all offended when they flaked. Listen this girls put a lot in life, in their beauty, in their social life etc..., it´s not enough you just neg her or be a challenge.
About hot chicks you have two types, both types of course have lots of guys to choose.

1) the very picky one, only had 1 or 2 boyfriends and thinks almost no man is good for her.

2) the big *****, who takes advantadge of being successful.

I just thought a reality check was needed...
10% of the guys are doing 90% of the f**king! Or whatever that ratio is.
Conversely, 90% of the women are doing 10% of the choosing! Or whatever that ratio is.

The fact is that your average joe ain't getting laid as much. Your average girl, is and can getting laid like a rock star! Guys who want that try to actually be rockstars, rich, etc. I don't know if nerds or ugly guys can be cute (Plastic surgery aside) but when women see them fixing up stuff, women see that they have that to offer.

PUA material is cool and all but all them tips, tricks, and confidence won't make you look any better when the shirt comes off. PUA going mainstream isn't a help either. Yes, PUA material doesn't work on all women. Looks, money, and status will get you laid by MANY, MANY women, but there is a small, slim pool that will reject your ass.

ANY hot chick has lots of guys to choose from! ANY 50 y.o. woman has a lot of guys to choose from! Hell, ANY girl has lots of guys to choose from. Period.
 
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