"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Today Kids, The Word Of The Day Is...FUN

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Fun, something that we ALL enjoy to extreme extents.

Fun what we search for so we can have a good time and create memories.

Fun things are what makes us happy which is a good thing, with happiness comes confidence.

Fun is what drives us in life, without it we wouldnt find pleasures in simple things.

Ever finish something that you were proud of, such as getting off of work and just thinking, wow, i feel damn good, I WANNA HAVE SOME FUN!?!? You most likely have at some point in your life. This my fellow juans is CLOSE to the right attitude. If this is the "right" attitude Mr. Oakraiderz sir then what is?? And the answer is.....I'M GOING TO HAVE SOME FUN!! If you're going out because you want something entertaining to do, REMEMBER TO HAVE FUN!Fun is the key to happiness, with fun follows happiness.

Fun & DJing

This is where the fun TRULY begins.:D

Getting ready for a night on the town with the boys? Well, think about something that they wont be...if you have fun you won't be bored. Lets look at each point of DJing and how it can be fun, ready?? Sure ya are...

Finding The Target

Hehe, one of my favorite parts. Who's the lucky lady going to be this time?? Who ever she is, wokr you're magic and show her that you know how to have a good time, then you'll get exactly what you want.

The Approach

Whats the fun part about this you ask? Telling you're friend what you're going to do and them not believing you. Then you start walking toward your target with a slight smirk on your face knowing you did something that they didnt and didnt think you would do. Which gives you that PERFECT confidence boost to show your "skills" during the "game". And as you get up and begin the approach feel the adrenaline RUSHING thru your body like a rapid. There's no turning back, so give it your all!!

Talking To The HB

How couldn't this part be a blast?? You did something that suprised your friends, maybe you and your target, so good job. This puts you one step closer to a state of ecstasy. While you're talking to a potential mate remember to laugh, make her laugh. Let her be assured that you enjoy life and that if she was with you that she would enjoy life MUCH MUCH MORE, because YOU my friend ARE a Don Juan. This is what seperates us from them, our mindset.

Sealing The Deal

aKa Judgement day. Although shes most likely decided if she would give you her number, this is when you are revealed your fate. Will you succeed, or will you just have to try a little hard next time to conquer your target? Well now is the time you figure it out. As one second passes by you start to feel a bit negative about it, two seconds pass, was this a smart move? The she says how much she would LOVE to hang out with you. BOOM SHACKALACKA, she tells you the number as your insides are jumping for joy...YOU DID IT, YOU HAD A BLAST BUT YOU DONT REALIZE IT YET . Then you close it all and head back to your group of comrades with cargo in hand, mission complete.

Having F-U-N Is Soo Much F-U-N!!

Indeed it is. This isn't a very hard concept to grasp, hell it's not even a concept, its a way of life. Although people would rather be bored because they are to concerned with people will think or other superficial ideas fathomed by their own imagination, which is just plain LUDACRIS!! If you want to do something fun DO IT!! Just as long as it doesn't put anyone in harms way. After you complete your mission of talking to the HB is where you realize how fun and easy it was. Therefore creating a snowball effect. You want to do it over and over. Just one time on the ride wasn't enough, you GOT TO DO IT AGAIN AND AGAIN!!! Imagine all the possiblities. How can you change your approach to better your success? There's numerous ways to change one small thing during your mission so that you don't get bored doing it the same way all the time. And a day later what will you be thinking?? That was a HOOT,i gotta do it again. Its a snowball effect. Like pringles says, once ya pop ya can't stop. Once you feel the joy you get out of just ONE approach, imagine how you would feel if you just kept going and kept getting numbers.

So get out there and have yourself a good time, you know you want to. Just break loose and relax and enjoy life. Do things you want to do but couldn't imagine yourself doing. The world is huge, if you want to do something go for it. Now, after you approach, feel the joy and spread it, i know you'll wanna;)

EDIT: Post #1300, hehe, this is just the beginning to the NEW revolution!:p
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Hey, this is a blatant ripoff of my post from just 30 minutes ago;) That being said, well written.
 

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Ah yes, Fun is what im all about while im out approaching. And the truth is if ur havin fun while doin an approach and you end up getting rejected, then you dont really feel like you got rejected. Maybe its un-dj-like, but when i get rejected (wich happens alot) i try and make fun of the chick just to get a kick outta my boys and make her look stupid. I dont care, there all tourists anyway.
 

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Originally posted by Mr. Latte
Hey, this is a blatant ripoff of my post from just 30 minutes ago;) That being said, well written.
And where might your post be mr smartass?
 

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Good post, Djing is a lot of fun, I love talking to random people. :p
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It's called something like "I'm sick of all this "power" crap"...something like that. But what can I say, other than great minds think alike? ;)
 

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Phrase of today is...read this..
 

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EXCELLENT POST! I THINK ITS BIBLE MATERIAL.

Only if you correct the spelling errors and make it more clearer in some parts.
 
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