"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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today is a new day for me

johnfjr

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I will no longer rely on techniques only, but rather work on my INNER game, the most important game there is. I realize that I can not change the actions of another person. Therefore Snooping, fretting, worrying about if she "loves me like she used to" or worrying at all is counterproductive to my life and my relationship with WOMEN. I am the prize, and I will teach myself to truly emit this attitude without relying on techniques but rather relying on how I TRULY feel about myself. This means I will enter a road of self improvement in every aspect of my life (hobbies, exercise, meeting new people, developing SOCIAL PROOF).

Building attraction is a game, and "love" is only a four letter word. Love is conditional, unless it is in a rare form when two people are truly meant for each other, and even then, it is conditional. It's a woman's duty in this God given environment to decide her mate. It's a man's duty to be the alpha so as many women as possible will choose HIM. A woman will choose who she wants to be with based on her criteria. Every woman, whether they say it or not, biologically is attracted to a man who is ALPHA. A man who possesses confidence in its most truest form. A man who is affectionate but not needy. A man who can leave her at any moment if disrespected beyond a threshold. A man who other women love. A man who has goals and prospects that he places HIGH priority on. A man who DOESN'T TAKE **** from ANYONE. But most importantly, a man who has fun and knows life is just way too short.

I am going to dedicate my life to becoming this man.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It sounds like you aren't too far from embodying it. I think the key to being an Alpha is the confidence, which only comes when you pass the tests that life, or others put in front of you.

Good luck!
 
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