Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Today I turn 21

Cheatz

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I've been on this site for some time, even before the reg date. This site really helped me at times i needed inspiration the most and i guess this is one of the times where I ask for some lift me up material. You might assume by reg date I would be a fully fledged don juan by now but isn't the case at all. I'm here to reveal my embarrasing misfortune that should be some sort of motivation for me to push myself out of this rut. Plain and simple, i'm a virgin and have given/received oral. I won't give much detail as to why, since i really can't pinpoint it out. Early last year, I started really getting into the dj bible and applying all the principles through my actions early last year and I can say it helped me become comfortable with myself and others and enjoy life. That faded off after around half a year and i can fastforward to now that i'm back to square one. I'm not shy or reserved anymore but feel like there's nothing to look forward to anymore. I wake up every morning with no passion or enthusiasm and don't know how that all slipped away from me last year.

Anyway i can't shake off this feeling how life has just flew by and am considered a mature adult now. I actually feel great but also feel down knowing how i will be 30 before i know it. I admit, i wasn't looking forward to this day enthusiastically but with the knowledge and experience i've gained to this day gives me some hope to look forward to the aging years to follow. Anyway i aim to make this age a major milestone in my life to become who i want to be and not sit back, as i have been habitually doing, and watch life pass by.

So i invite fellow dj's to share wisdom and advice you have learned that could have helped you when you were this age. Any inspiring quotes or parables to lift me up is welcomed too :)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Vulpine

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Don't let anyone order you a "Buffalo Sweat" at the pub later.

(Buffalo Sweat: 3/4 oz whiskey, 3 dashes tobasco, 1 nasty squeeze from the bar rag to fill shot glass)
 

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You will never be happy if you continue to search for what happiness consists of. You will never live if you are looking for the meaning of life. ~Albert Camus

In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life. It goes on. ~Robert Frost

this look great for me...i hpe they help
 
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