“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Today at a restaurant bar

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So I went to this restaurant bar called Ale House. I got there before it even opened and was let in at 11am when the place opened.

Right away, I heard someone ask the bartender how she's doing and she says "just ready to MAKE SOME MONEY!!!" So I'm thinking fvck this, I'm just gonna tip her zero. She's just gonna smile to me all fake and nice while she just wants money and could care less if I die. It's not just girls on Seeking Arrangement that are all about money.

But then I heard some customers ask how she was doing. Perhaps they knew her from going in there before. I heard her say how she messed her neck up and had 3 discs that were damaged in her neck. She was talking about how she had to go to physical therapy. So then I was thinking damn I see she's got problems so that's why she needs money to help with her real life issues. It's not like she's going to spend it on Gucci sunglasses and Prada bags. Plus, the night before, I was looking into average salary of bartenders, waitresses, and other common girl jobs and it's not like they make a million bucks. $30,000 - $50,000/year probably in a city like this one.

Then I was thinking how do people even start conversations. It seemed like everyone else there knew each other previously, but I don't think they did. I just kind of sit there without saying a word. I'm not much of a talker.

There has to be something deeper than just money money money. I think girls just want to have fun really. I bet their boyfriends don't have to pay for sh1t, and maybe the girl even pays them. Whatever their boyfriend has... she likes. He has "it." Whatever "it" is... he has it. In the book Models, it says that "it" is when she looks in a guys eyes and sees that he cares more about his opinion of himself than in her opinion of him. Who knows how true that is.

But I was reminded one time of the "boyfriend" of a prostitute I visited in a hotel one time. The guy was out getting food for the girl, while she's in there getting nailed by 5 guys/day. That is NOT a position I would want to be in. So maybe the "boyfriend" is sometimes someone who just likes the girl enough to put up with her sh1t.

Then, I noticed a bunch of old guys with old wives. I don't think I would ever do that. I could still be on Seeking Arrangement when I'm 60, so why have some old wife.

Also, I think it's safe to assume that any girl on the planet can get sex whenever she wants.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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At least she is working and not leaching her living from some clueless beta working 15 x hour days so she can have new shoes every week and drive a better car than he does.
 
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At least she is working and not leaching her living from some clueless beta working 15 x hour days so she can have new shoes every week and drive a better car than he does.
Yea. I think A LOT of girls work, though.

I was thinking last night about what I would be doing if my dad didn't get rich while I was locked up and help me when I got out.

Convicted felon, no college degree, 3 herniated discs in my back. Wouldn't have been easy.
 

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Yea. I think A LOT of girls work, though.

I was thinking last night about what I would be doing if my dad didn't get rich while I was locked up and help me when I got out.

Convicted felon, no college degree, 3 herniated discs in my back. Wouldn't have been easy.
Nothing wrong with getting help like your dad gave you so you can get re established and back on your feet, so long as it doesn't become a permanent arrangement. I have a buddy who did 20 in State prison and had to get help from his grandma when he got out.
 

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That's what family is for. Just appreciate your dad and have some real gratitude. Gratitude is like any other good habbit you have to practice it.
 
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Seriously, does OP get kickback every time he mentions Seeing Ar-raunchy-ass?
 

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dear diary



are you going anywhere with this thread or having one of those old people stream of conscious thoughts type of posting? because really this post serves no benefit, reading it and infact replying to it has been a waste of time. next time write something a bit more worthy and stop treating this forum like your personal diary.
 
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